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How do i proposition a friends with benefits with a guy and keep it quiet?
12-09-2012, 02:18 PM
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How do i proposition a friends with benefits with a guy and keep it quiet?
I am bi and still in the closet. I am a senior in high school and want to wait until I move out to come out. I got dumped recently anddontwant the drama. Butthere is this guyat school who I am 90% sure is gay andsingle. We aren'tfriends butI'mnice tohim whenI see him. We both are in the same physics class but don't talk all that much. If i were to set up rules like if there is attatchment, we break it off kind of stuff,wouldthat be okay? Part of the reason I am thinking a guy I barely know is so there isn't attatchment and if it goes south it isn't my best friend. How should I initiate a FWBand keepitquiet? I know people think he's really nice (which i see too) so I hope he can stay quiet. How should I approach him? Can you give me any ideas for rules for this FWB? I don't think I would have anal with him but probably making out and oraltype stuff. How should I try to become friends with someone who keeps to himself mostly? What do you think

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12-09-2012, 02:26 PM
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A friends with benefits type relationship is always much more easier once you have left school, that way you can go to clubs, bars, use dating apps/websites, etc.

FACEBOOK!!!

If he has Facebook, message him, start messaging him every night/day. Don't be annoying just start talking on Facebook.

You don't know for sure if his gay so don't open up to him right away, slowly get to know him (Sorry, but it's the only way to start sexual relations if you don't know his sexuality)

"Hey do we have any homework for physics?" Would be a great start.
"Hey, can I be your partner for physics"

Start off slow like that. Smile

Please be sure if you were to under take anal sex, you both give consent and you use a condom. Always. Smile

Love your sexuality - Embrace it - It's your, you were born with it, make the most of it while you live.
HOPE THIS HELPS!! GOODLUCK!!

Lots of love,
xo

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