My friends always exclude me?

[Robyn]

My friends always exclude me and kind of speak over me alot and they never listen to me properly. I always feel so invisible around them, like I'm nothing important.

We have a group facebook chat for the 6 of us and we message eachother on that one chat every night. Except tonight, I felt someting was weird since no one was talking. I'd had my suspicions about it before so I did something quite bad I suppose. I went onto my 'friends' facebook account because I know the password (I know it's really wrong but I just wanted to find out) and I discovered they've made a new facebook chat group and I'm not included. Everyone but me. I've never felt so upset in my entire life. To add to it, they were also talking about me now and then.

So, I went back onto my account and posted in the original chat group saying it was odd how no one was talking. Seconds later, in the new chat group, the one I'm not in, one of my friends go "Oh god. Oh no. Look in the other chat." Another friend posted in the original group "We're all so busy with work for once haha" Then I saw them laughing about it in the group I'm not in.

This has made me feel so upset tonight. I feel so alone. What am I supposed to do to make it better?

I'm a very shy person and quite introverted so making new friends is quite difficult for me to do. But I despise these 'friends' I currently have.

[Max]

Tell your friend that you are so mad that you got a rage b`o`ner

[Swerve]

Just make new friends
Just start conversations with people what's the worse that can happen ?
There will be that one person who will be nice enough to let you hang out with them and become your friend

[LiveLaughLove]

These are not real friends. Distance yourself for them, because they will only hurt you. Quite honestly, they sound like a group of stuck-up, mean, little snobby brats. They will only bring negativity into your life.
I'm a shy person too so I understand how hard it is to make new friends, but over time, you will come to find people that are just like you. What I found worked for me is to take up some hobbies I was interested in, and start conversations with other people in the same hobby about whatever you're doing. It's more comfortable conversing with someone about a topic you're both passionate about. Also, when I'm in class, I find that even saying hi to the person next to me, or even making comments about the class to someone nearby can lead to a friendship.
Please leave these friends of yours and do not pay any mind to what they are saying about you. They are mean people and you are better off without them. You really sound like a nice person and you can do so much better with more positive and friendly people in your life. Good luck hun, I wish you the very best

[lowreward613]

These people are not your friends. You deserve better than them. They sound like they are either using you for something, or are trying to get rid of you.
Next time you see them face to face, all I want you to do is say "You evidently don't want me around, so I''ll go and no longer be a burden to you." or something to that effect. If they do anything, like apologize or say they'll change, just say no and walk away. If they suddenly turn nasty, just say "I know about that chat room I wasn't invited to. Oh well, no big deal" and walk away!
You sound like a lovely girl, and hopefully these friends stay away from you.

If it helps, you can talk to me on FB, I've been through the exact same thing: https://www.facebook.com/millie.aked