I made a mistake that I don't know how to fix?

[Amy]

I used to hook up with this boy all the time, but then one of my friends started dating him. I didn't care at all because I didn't like the kid. him and my friend dated for almost a year and they broke up. when they were broken up, I was at a party with him and he got me in a room with him and we started hooking up but I made him stop because I didn't want to hurt my friend. I didn't tell my friend what happened and a couple days later, she got back together with the boy. about 4 months went by and we were still friends but she found out about what happened at the party from someone else and now she hates me. I tried to explain myself and I aplogiZed several times. it makes me so upset that I hurt my friend and she won't even speak to me

[?]

we all make mistakes the important thing to do now is to be honest with her and make her listen
just tell her that nothing happened and that you made the guy stop
just keep trying text her email her mention her on twitter lol write on her facebook wall
if she really means a lot to you as a friend just take whatever she says she can't not talk to you forever how long can a person keep a grudge? if she doesn't talk to you anymore just ask her what she wants you to do i mean whats done is done right? say if you could go to the past and change what happened you would but you can't and ask her what she wants you to do i mean you will have said sorry theres not much else you can do
whatever you do don't blame the other person if you get in a conversation with her just tell her that he had part in it too
good luck

[hornchurchmale]

Have a third friend explain. After all if they had split then ought to be no issues, your regard for friend stopped intimacy. If anything he is the issue, i suspect he has told her a different version of events. Eg you came onto him. Freind is emotionally involved with him so you will be put aside. Sadly all we can really do is move on and find new . She was hurt over something yhat she had no real right to be,, so if your version is correct she is biggest loser.