Is he cheating on me?

[Shiann]

My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months now and recently I found him on a dating website called Meet Me. His profile pic is him, without a shirt, flexing. I scrolled down through his posts and he's been flirting with girls, asking them to hit him up, if they're down to do something tonight, just all this flirting. This led me to log on to his Facebook and read his messages. He's been flirting there too. Calling girls gorgeous, talking to his ex who he was with a few months before me, and referring to me as "some girl" or "Nothing important". He won't change his relationship status, won't tag me, or even let me comment on his pictures. It's like I don't even exist. He always tells me that he's going to go to the gym at 12 or 1 am and every time I text or call him he won't answer for hours and always says he left it in his locker. Do you think he might be cheating?
He always accuses me of cheating, too. And sometimes, late at night, he says that he's out taking a walk or at the gym and this is at 12 or 1am. He lives in Norwalk, one of the sketchiest cities in L.A. and always says that he had his phone in his locker or it's dead. I've caught him flirting before with his exes and even some girl he met off the Xbox. When I confront him he gets all lovey dovey with me and tries to kiss my ass.

[Theresa]

Who goes to the gym at 12 or 1am?

[MakeItShine]

There's no might be about it. To me, flirting is cheating anyways. Dump his ass.

[ashley]

Open your eyes! You just listed a bunch of ways that he is cheating on you and you are still asking if he is cheating. When you think of your ideal relationship with a man, is this how you thought it would be? No.

Get out of this and find someone who respects you and is proud to be with you. The fact that you are snooping on him means that you don't trust him and probably for good reason. Even if he has never slept with or seen any of these girls, flirting at that level is cheating. Lying to you is cheating.

Even if he is at the gym, he is being shady and you need to trust your instincts. If I guy referred to me as "some girl," I would get my self-respect and walk away. If your friend was having these same issues, I know you would tell her to get out. Step out of the situation and look at how you are being used and disrespected.

[bossy ♥]

1. Why else would he be on a dating site if it wasn't for meeting other girls? Especially with photos of him showing off his body to lure girls in.
2. If he flirts with girls and asks them to hit him up, that's already "cheating" right there
3. If he considers you some girl or nothing important, dump his ass. YOU are important, you're his girlfriend!! He tells that to girls to make him seem more available.
4. He won't let you comment or won't tag you so the girls don't find out and so you don't
5. No one goes to the gym that late, that's a bunch of bs. Especially if he doesn't answer texts/calls

You know he's cheating on you, time to leave that tool!

[Deckster]

With all this you know and still can't figure it out. He is a cheatin weasel.