Should I be mad at my girlfriend?

[Zach]

Hello

I've been with my girlfriend for 3 months, and we're both 17. I went to change something on my girlfriends facebook and was asked to check her message from her friend since she wasn't on her computer cause it broke. Anyways, in her chat log there was a chat from a guy. We started going out August 25, and the date of the conversation was September 6th so we were going out at the time. He rated her, and she said "thannks". When I say rate I mean like he made a status going "like my status and I'll rate you from 1-10" on looks. It kind of bothered me this discovery because we were going out. I know she also talked to this boy in the past and never got with him, but she did have an attraction towards him. I feel as if she liked that status in hopes to try and talk to him, because they have talked previously. I do trust her but it feels weird.. like she went behind my back and did something. I brought this up to her and she said she doesn't remember doing that and that she's very sorry and she cried because she knows that she'd get mad if I did that to her. She does a lot to show that she loves me and I don't know should I still trust her? She didn't cheat but it feels iffy..maybe I'm just overthinking?

What should I do?

Thanks for reading!

[Vivian St Vaughn]

You guys had been dating for nine days, you're overreacting a bit, I'd think, especially if she hasn't been talking to him since.

That being said, if you aren't going to be able to get past it, just end things with her now.

[princess]

You're being childish , its not like he asked her out and she said yeah , she's still with you right ? That was a month ago DROP it it's the stupid reason to be mad at her .. Dude she cried over you , she loves you trust her ..

[Erraticquilt324]

dont get pissed off.. she probly didnt think anything of it.She seems likes she really likes you.. just xcool it,. forgive her.. if you make a big fuss, problems WILL happen just let it go. its not that big of a thing but its good to be cautious, but not over cautious

[Juliet]

Forget about it and put it behind yourself if something else stirs up (bigger than this) then call it quits

[Elsewhere]

She didn't do anything wrong, you both are blowing this way out of proportion. I think you two need to stop sharing facebook profiles. It's obviously too hard for you to handle and you know you will be tempted to snoop again. You should trust her enough not to care what she does online. If you don't, you shouldn't be together at all.

[Melody]

I think you're REALLY over-thinking this, people do that sort of thing all the time! and the fact that she seemed that distraught that you were upset with her seems to say she doesn't view her actions as hurtful until you mentioned it to her- She clearly cares for you, maybe just let her know for future reference that you are upset with it and she'll avoid it- however it is possible that doing such things could make her feel as if you're trying to control her- it depends on the personalities of both you and your girlfriend, You're probably the best person to make the decision here.