I need help from the girls please I need to know if should try anything or just be close friends?

[Austin]

Last year i had to switch schools which was ok, but when i got to the new school they changed my classes around, i found an awesome class with this awesome girl really attactive,smart,funny, respectful,careing and on the second day before school let out her boyfriend dumped her, she was crying and i was there for her and i walked her to her bus and she took my hat with her and gave it back the next day,i really like her so when summer came around i would talk with her all the time, her and her boyfriend are on and off but he treats her like shit he sleeps around with other women and makes sure she finds out,and she always comes texting me when he does and we talk on the phone, well the last time he did that to her i ended up punching him in the face and then she gave me a hug and grabed my hand and we walked off, well her and her boyfriend ended up getting back together and then they brake up again, but this time i ask her to hangout at friendly shopping cernter and we spent the whole day togeter, it was perfect we held hands have our phones off and just talked with each other..... well later on that night i sign in Facebook and she was back together with her boyfriend and i guess she told him about the day me and her spent together and now he has friends that always spys on me and her converts and he takes her phone and reads the text messages, ive tryed to hangout with her but she never comes anymore and hardly ever texts, and she keeps saying its her boyfriends fault which i dont dout,but now im getting picked on because of it...i really like her but after all of that im not sure what to do, will you please give me some advice

[_wisdomisbeauty]

It seems like she controls her
I would stay away
You can get hurt
Help me?
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[tiger]

Wait until she is "off" with her boyfriend again. Then make your move, because then you won't be moving in on someone's girl. But after they break up just take it easy and hang out with her and take her to a movie and if she wants things to go further then she'll let you know and you just be gentle with her.

[Manda]

I am going to try and help you, hon, but I am also going to tell you that I can't guarantee that things will end up exactly the way that you want.

This guy that your friend is with sounds like a bit of a jerk and it sounds like he uses her. Some girls stay with guys like that because they genuinely care about them. Sometimes, it's because they have no other options that seem better.

Maybe your friend just needs to know that you are there for her. It sounds like you need to sit down and talk with her, if you can get her alone. Maybe, if she knows what a good guy you are, and she knows that you can treat her better, she may finally get rid of this guy.

But, I don't want to see you get hurt so, if it doesn't go the way you would like, I am genuinely sorry. You seem like a really great man. At the end of the day, all you can do is try.

Good luck! I hope everything works out for you.