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Does she not like me? :( I feel sad?
12-11-2012, 08:00 PM
Post: #1
Does she not like me? :( I feel sad?
Okay, well I know this girl in my year at school  and I've had strong feelings for her for 11 months. The girl knows I like her..
We've spoken in person a few times she's nice and friendly, but I chat to her on Facebook more than person cause I'm a shy guy. 
(Make fun of me if you want cause I've been treated worse..)

However, on Facebook she sounds like a complete different person than in real life.
Last night I had a chat with her and I sent her long texts with smiley emoticons and she only sent 1-3 word long texts with no smiley
emoticons.
I feel very sad, I have a feeling she gets annoyed when I talk to her Sad

Here are some of our messages from last night in case that helps:
NOTE: my crush is dyslexic so her spelling may be a little inaccurate.

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http://m.flickr.com/#/photos/90204725@N07/8233758703/

Does she really not like me? Sad
She knows I like her.. I think.

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12-11-2012, 08:08 PM
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maybe you are exhausting her with questions and need to be more straight forward. you asked her what she was doing this weekend and she said nothing you should have asked her if she wants to go cinema or hangout? instead you went on to ask more questions. make your intentions clear and be more confident in you approach.

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12-11-2012, 08:08 PM
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I would say that her tone does come across as a fairly irrate but not necessarily at you. I know that when sometimes a guy is talking to me and I am in a bad mood then i will accidentally take it out on him. So don't give up yet and just bare it in mind that it might not be you but a word of advice without sounding harsh, dont try as hard to make conversation with her. Get her talking about something that she can talk about with minimal input from you because at the moment without being rude, it is fairly obvious that you are trying to create conversation that just isn't there. Sorry if this isn't what you wanted to hear but I think you also need to make the effort to speak to her more in person I can honestly tell you that girls find it impressive when guys have the courage to go up to them and talk to them in person rather than resorting to facebook or text. Hope this was helpful! Smile
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12-11-2012, 08:08 PM
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OK, I have to admit that conversation did seem very one-sided and I think she might just be like that on Facebook because like you said, she's dyslexic, so she's not that good at writing or typing or whatever, and that's probably why she's almost like a different person. Maybe she likes speaking to you in person better than chatting on Facebook? How about you ask her friends and people who hang out with her if she likes you back? But in person, not on Facebook, because other people can read your conversations on Facebook, can't they?
Best of luck to you. Oh, and just because you chat to her more on Facebook, that isn't really a reason for people to make fun of you. Just saying.
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12-11-2012, 08:08 PM
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look guy, there are two possibilites. Maybe the girl is not interested at all or maybe she's just not a good company.
According to me, you've got to change your way of acting and processing or let itgo... She's not that interesting and if she's acting this way all the time, then she's gonna be a kinda weird girfriend!
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