Should i lose my virginity with little experience?

[Lily]

I am a 16 year old girl and i have very little experience with relationships and stuff. It was only at the beginning of this year that i had my first kiss/hook up. it was at a community party with a stranger, which i don't regret doing at all. In total i have only hooked up 3 times. Now this guy that i have met once with a friend is messaging me on facebook.(he is nice, but not attractive and lots of people call him a freak because he loves to try and make friends, which may result in the assumption of being a stalker) After sort of getting to know me online, one conversation led to another, and he offered to help me lose my virginity, as i just want to get it over and done with and feel ready. The problem is i have practically no experience and i am one of the shyest people ever so i don't talk too much. (not because i don't want to, but because i can't think of anything to say/ask).

So i really want to get it over with and i know people will probably say don't waste it and you will regret it. But i doubt i will regret it as this guy seems genuinely nice and said he would take it slow and wants to make it enjoyable for me. I am just scared for no reason.
I do believe i am ready, but should i really do it with someone i barely know? I don't know many guys/talk to them.

But please give me your opinion. Don't lecture me on safe sex i know the problems/preventions. I will add more info if you want to know something. Thank you xx
I have met him before so i know that he isn't a pedo and he has given me the choice whether or not i want to do it. Also i don't want to end up with him. He knows that.

[crazigirlalert]

No.

[narrowmeal283]

you barely know this guy and you want to lose you virginity with him? NO WAY

[Tobias]

He's probably a 45 year old pedophile. You can't trust people you met on the internet. Best tip you can get is go on some dates, meet someone you care about and lose it with them.

Virginity isn't something you lose "to get it over with." You do not get an Xbox achievement or a Playstation 3 trophy for losing your virginity so why rush into it? Wait till you find a good fellow you've met in person and dated for a while. If he respects you he'll wait. A dude offering you sex to help you over the internet? That's just creepy.

[Renren]

I'd say NO!! If you don't to be laughed off at the school. better not try it. That can wait!

[gemini_mike2007]

Since I'm a parent and my daughter is going to be 16, I will approach it in this manner as if you were my daughter and this won't be a lecture because i'm the "cool' parent, at least I consider myself to be.

Listen honey, there is nothing wrong with being a virgin. I know there is a lot of peer pressure to lose your virginity this day an age to say that you've "done" it so you can sound cool like smoking or doing drugs, or drinking beer, or what have you, but you only have one virginity.

Look at the older people around you....How many of them actually end up with the guys that took their virginity? not very many...a small percentage, but when you look back at it you don't want to say i met some guy on the internet to lose my virginity to get it over with. When you have kids are you gonna tell your daughter that's how you lost your virginity and that she can do it the same way?

I "cringe" at the thought of the day I find out my daughter is no longer a virgin, but that's her choice, if I had it my way she would wait until she is married and finds her true love, but that's not reality these days. I just want her to be smart and not suffer heartache along the way. The person who "deserves" your virginity is the person who you feel is special in your heart and treats you the way you want to be treated and isn't going dump you the moment they get what they want/came for.

Hope this helps and good luck.
gemini_mike2007@yahoo.com