No Future - What does NO future actually mean?

[idol]

I liked a colleague and ended up confessing one day. Prior to that we communicated very normally and nicely... He had once even casually asked me about my valentines day Plans etc...

1. After I confessed feelings in text ... he said he was blushing and didn't know how to react!!! He thought I hated him... What does this mean? Is blushing ok even if he wasn't interested in me?

2. After confessing that he is blushing at my proposal, he said my timing is bad. So basically he said No indirectly and said he did not see a future to this relationship... Can you tell me what he means... He doesn't find me attractive? or he has no interest in me or By no future he means something else... He is a South Indian And Im a east indian... (Hope Indian's will understand what I mean... huge cultural difference!!! ) What does NO future actually mean? Is it just an excuse?

3. He also stopped talking to me... stating he feels very guilty. He now ignores me totally and treats me very rudely.... He refused to stay even friends like we were before. God knows why?

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i will move on in life if he doesn't love me back. i have no choice... but somehow his replies fail to convince me. He could have been staightforward... whatever the reason was... see if you guys can make some sense from what he was trying to say - No future, guilty and then complete ignorance... whereas we used to discuss movies and books in texts before I confessed feelings... I used to initiate and he used to reply till late night.

He is rude coz he wants me to hate him... he confessed it once when I confronted him... then he ignores me compltely... he never replies... I have changed jobs living in a different city for many months now and I mail him sometimes.... He never replies... BTW, I told him I missed him and wated to c him very mch... he didnt reply but uploaded his latest pic after 2 days in facebook. (usually he never uploads any pics - his last profile pic was unchanged for past 8 months)... Does he pity me or is thr smthing else in his mind. what is it?

[Nicole]

I think you should move on, dwelling on this isn't good for you. There is no way to tell exactly what he is thinking, but he obviously doesn't have feelings for you.

[Party animal]

move on means he don't feel chemistry between you two

[Shane]

1. Thank you SO much for using paragraphs, usually people just send a wall of text and I don't wanna read that.

2. I'm typing this assuming you are female. I am a male and I have done exactly what he is doing to you before, I can't read his mind obviously so take my advice with a grain of salt, because his thought process could be completely different to mine.

Saying that there is no future doesn't mean that he doesn't like you, but rather he does not feel that your personality and his will not mix. He could feel that the relationship would end within 2 weeks and what's the point in trying for something that wont last?

Maby if you told him in person he would have reacted better. I'm not saying by text is wrong but when you do it in person you put him on the spot and you get to observe his reaction.

My advise isn't good but that is what I believe is the problem.

PS: he could also be interested in somebody else, just about to ask someone out, already have a girlfriend or just not really be interested in anything at the moment.

[BINGO]

Sorry, to say you have to move on. It'll take time to get over him. He is happy that you liked him. Hence all the flirting/blushing. Most Indian guys are that way. They don't have the guts to seek approval of their parents, hence they decline all such proposals.