I am a 47 year old grandmother. How do I keep a man, who is 52, interested in me?

[Hopelessly Devoted]

We both met on Plenty of Fish and have been communicating for about 3 months. We finally met and have been doing great. How do I keep him interested in me and wanting to pursue a long term relationship and possibly marriage?

[Jollyslave255]

Just be yourself. If he's a keeper, he will enjoy you at your best and be tolerant of you at your worst.

[Linda]

Be yourself. If he is the right person for you, then shouldn't have to be constantly 'on,' trying to impress or entice him. If he wants the same thing you do, and you are right for each other, that's great. If not, you could stand on your head for him (and much more), and it still wouldn't end up in a happy marriage.

Good luck.

[Lovely]

Too early in the relationship to stress about this. If he is worth keeping then he will stick around because of who you are. This question smacks of desperation. There really are plenty of good men out there and this early how can you tell if he is worth marrying? You are old enough to know enough about men. Enjoy what you have now. You don't have an expiration date.

[Good Life by Love]

see if he is good guy through the little and big things.

make sure to always to protect your money and assets

ask him what he likes and do it all.


If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love

Also I see premarital counseling working.Church usually has it for free
Either way for later as a wife if you decide make sure to take care of him always in the love making area. I hope you can be stay at home wife ([no school]events with guys around unless your husband is there 100%) that takes care of all the woman things and he is taking care of all the man things like lifting, fixing working outside and handling all those jerks, and if you do work outside you know what I mean. I hope you can be a home wife so the marriage can be a loving one with peace. He wants a feminine wife not a worker guy. If you make double what he makes he should stay home.
*Talking is good. Find a private place to talk with time to talk. Never teach, just inform if necessary and in a meek manner. Handle the kids and teach them with few words and listen well, pay attention to details. If some parts kids can't be handled then inform the husband.
*Be a good wife and make sure all the cooking and cleaning is done. Stay Fit, Smell Good, Dress well. Make sure to make love when ever either of you want.
*Be meek. Quick to listen, slow to speak. Only tell him things when needed. Never teach him. If you do tell him something make sure it is kindly. Handle the kids, and if you notice you can't for sure then inform him in a kindly way.
*Hugs and kisses are always good any time, instead in front of the guys otherwise the guys might want some too. Make sure to let him know to keep the making love part private.
*Remember your NEVER a push over, you LOVE so you give BUT if your ever taken advantage fix it asap with a calm talk in a private place with time to talk while hugging and ending it with a kiss and maybe love.
*Make sure your spouse can handle things, like if he is not good with money maybe he should handle it. I mean like saving for a 6 month rainy day and then increase that as much as you can as time goes on. Buy a house cash small to start and then bigger when you decide and ready to have a child so the child can stay in one community for their whole school life and a place to come home always during Holidays and for you to plant your plants and watch them grow and to grow old in, make sure to pay cash or go smaller if needed or just wait on the child/bigger home, peace is most important. Retirement, Vacations.

Also I see counseling working.

On another note: Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.

Love and the Good Life will come
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