My husband is jealous of everything I do?

[Blondie]

I am disabled and can not work anymore due to my back and pain
My husband is a work aholic and does not go out with friends. . I use to be a nurse and I am very social. I have a set schedule everyday Of swimming,for 2 hours, clean house, take care of 2 kids and 2 dogs, nap for 2 hours due o pain, make dinner help kids with homework. Take my meds and go to bed.
I have been married for 20 years and faithful all to him

[Abbie Patterson]

Dear one,
I might have help.
I'll give you the advise I have. Get him to study this with you . It tells how to treat one another to cause love to bloom. If he will study it with you, then he's nicer than my guy. I guess you know about fibro mialgia that happens from lots of stress like an over jelouse person. http://www.thewellspring.com/flex/profes...family.cfm
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[Catherine M]

Perhaps your husband feels insecure because he might think you are totally dependent on him and that's the way he likes it. Try to find a way to become more self-sufficient, such as working from home or accessing sheltered workshop. Being vulnerable to an insecure, jealous person is not a good situation.

[strange-artist]

Your husband is nervous you may cheat on him-you gotta get him to trust you

[Good Life by Love]

your doing many good things. He needs help seek couples counseling

You need to sit down and talk in a private place with time to talk. Hug your partner while saying soft and sweet you love him sooo much and you want this to be forever,let him know you want couples counseling . When yes then kiss. This will make your relationship very happy. A good life

Also I see premarital counseling working.Church usually has it for free. You can even attend after marriage.

Arguing is normal but is it good, no, so make sure it is 7 years no arguments. After 7 solid years of perfect marriage then another child if desired.

If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love

I hope you can be stay at home wife ([no school]events with guys around unless your husband is there 100%) that takes care of all the woman things and he is taking care of all the man things like lifting, fixing working outside and handling all those jerks, and if you do work outside you know what I mean. I hope you can be a home wife so the marriage can be a loving one with peace. He wants a feminine wife not a worker guy. If you make double what he makes he should stay home.
*Talking is good. Find a private place to talk with time to talk. Never teach, just inform if necessary and in a meek manner. Handle the kids and teach them with few words and listen well, pay attention to details. If some parts kids can't be handled then inform the husband.
*Be a good wife and make sure all the cooking and cleaning is done. Stay Fit, Smell Good, Dress well. Make sure to make love when ever either of you want.
*Be meek. Quick to listen, slow to speak. Only tell him things when needed. Never teach him. If you do tell him something make sure it is kindly. Handle the kids, and if you notice you can't for sure then inform him in a kindly way.
*Hugs and kisses are always good any time, instead in front of the guys otherwise the guys might want some too. Make sure to let him know to keep the making love part private.
*Remember your NEVER a push over, you LOVE so you give BUT if your ever taken advantage fix it asap with a calm talk in a private place with time to talk while hugging and ending it with a kiss and maybe love.
*Make sure your spouse can handle things, like if he is not good with money maybe he should handle it. I mean like saving for a 6 month rainy day and then increase that as much as you can as time goes on. Buy a house cash small to start and then bigger when you decide and ready to have a child so the child can stay in one community for their whole school life and a place to come home always during Holidays and for you to plant your plants and watch them grow and to grow old in, make sure to pay cash or go smaller if needed or just wait on the child/bigger home, peace is most important. Retirement, Vacations.
Also make sure to put a small bundle of money as a emergency fund for you

Also I see counseling working.
On another note: Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.
Love and the Good Life will come
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