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im not sure now why hes doing this?
12-14-2012, 06:50 PM
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im not sure now why hes doing this?
my ex fiance who i havent seen for ages asked me to be his facebook friend .
when i went on his page i saw he had got married-we had a bad split so thought it was weird for him to want to stay friends. anyway he was emailing me quite a lot going on about how life was great blah blah -i got the impression he was rubbing my face in it so in the end it became too upsetting so i deleted him.
that was 8 weeks ago now im getting these notifications on facebook saying hes sent me these items-i must have been on one of his games-why is he doing this ?

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12-14-2012, 06:58 PM
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Maybe's he's just being an ass.

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12-14-2012, 06:58 PM
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First Off; Whats Your Confusion?
I Dont Get What You Mean By Sendinq You These Thinqs?
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12-14-2012, 06:58 PM
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When I read the some of the beginning sentences t I feel that maybe he truly wants to be friends with you. But when I finished the whole statement I think he's rubbing it in your face..

-- Just deal with it in a calm, sophisticated matter girlfriend.. coz i think he'd be more pleasured if you got irritated and all
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12-14-2012, 06:58 PM
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He IS rubbing it in your face..
What kind of EX fiance emails you and goes on about how great his life is???
And im guessing that he was your fiance that yours are not teenagers and he should be more mature about everything..
On the other hand, Are you 100% SURE his gotton married? Like was there any photos of the wedding or comments about the wedding? If not, he could just be down about his life and not be enjoying it and missing you therefore 'pretending' his married would get at you and make you want to talk to him more. Also by emailing you and bragging about how great his life is might be away of him feeling better. Remember his a guy they all go to the full extent lol.
Do not let him get at you, dont get mad or sad at him or about this, Obvioulsy if his adding you and sending you emails he misses you or is thinking about you alot. why else would he make contact?
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12-14-2012, 06:58 PM
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well...

You did say you had a bad split and that you were having an impression that he's just bragging.

Well...i know a psychiatrist and she told me that perhaps there was some of both these two things in what he is doing:

1) hes IS rubbing it on your face that he RECOVERED
2) He's trying to patch up your ruined relationship

The first one IS predictable

The second one means he just wants to start over AS FRIENDS. He does not want a developed intimacy but wants to come to good terms with you. It is one way of making up for what happened between you two. And it is also very much like a PREVIEW. That maybe since HE now has a GOOD life, he's probably showing you that you could have a good life too. Either way he's just trying to show a brand new relationship.

Do not fret about it. It is quite unique yes but not one of a kind. This behavior is one unique and naturally occurring among the various human reactions.

It's a good thing
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12-14-2012, 06:58 PM
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It sounds like he is rubbing it in your face. I would say just ignore him, don't reply to anything, eventually he will go away cause he will get bored of it.
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12-14-2012, 06:58 PM
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hes bored with his wife. plain and simple. so hes rubbing it in your face about his life which hes obviously not happy with until he feels worth something
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12-14-2012, 06:58 PM
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well facebook apps no one really pays attention to who they are sending "gifts" to but they need to be your facebook friend, so you didn't delete him otherwise he wouldn't be able to send these to you. Yeah he was rubbing it in, almost everyone likes to show their ex how happy they are without them even when they are over it because no matter what, you are a chapter in their past. Go onto your friend's list and make sure you properly remove him as a friend and ignore and block any further requests. You can block applications and you won't recieve any more crap from them.
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