How do you get past hating woman your husband left you for?

[Ceila]

I can past him leaving me, but I hate when my kids spend time with her and her kid and they like them. It's like a knife in my heart.

[Pat500]

You have to work on this emotion which is very hurtful,too. Try not to show your emotions or talk about it in front of the children. You may have to see a counselor to vent out your hatred.

[Loony]

come on get over it

[Willow Tree]

As a mom who's been through it, let me say it's the most difficult pill to swallow! All i can say is, if the other woman is good to your kids, never gave you a reason to hate her ( aside from being married to your e x) and has been a good new wife ... let go of any negative feelings because you will carry a large burden you don't really need. Focus on being the best mother you can be and you will never have to worry that they will love her more.

[Good Life by Love]

Get a good lawyer with NO upfront fee and LOW fees. There are many lawyers, you need to call around. Make sure his expertise in divorce and he has a long good history. Get alimony and child support and you will be ok.

When you get a bf he might feel the same, but the best thing for YOU is forgive him and wish the best for him and move on. Learn from the past and leave the rest behind

Look at the sky, look at the tree. The joy from everything around you is your happiness.

Your free right now so take advantage of it.
Good that he is gone, make sure he doesn't come back. Be strong for your sake.

Relationships are obligation, yet enjoyment, but there is responsibilities. Make sure this is the way you want to go.

If you do, join chat rooms, clubs, hobbies and meet people that like what you like.

There is so much you can do, start with little steps and keep at it.

If you do, join chat rooms, clubs, hobbies and meet people that like what you like.

There is so much you can do, start with little steps and keep at it.
Recommended to take it slow, take time to get to know the person. Try to keep things clean, less baggage. Let 7 years of perfect relationship before marriage (if you want you can always be engaged and married after that 7 years has passed). After 7 solid years of perfect marriage then a child if desired.

If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love
Either way for later as a wife if you decide make sure to take care of him always in the love making area. I hope you can be stay at home wife ([no school]events with guys around unless your husband is there 100%) that takes care of all the woman things and he is taking care of all the man things like lifting, fixing working outside and handling all those jerks, and if you do work outside you know what I mean. I hope you can be a home wife so the marriage can be a loving one with peace. He wants a feminine wife not a worker guy

Always talking is good. Find a private place to talk with time to talk. Never teach, just inform if necessary and in a meek manner. Handle the kids and teach them with few words and listen well, pay attention to details. If some parts kids can't be handled then inform the husband.

Be a good wife and make sure all the cooking and cleaning is done. Stay Fit, Smell Good, Dress well. Make sure to make love when ever either of you want.

Be meek. Quick to listen, slow to speak. Only tell him things when needed. Never teach him. If you do tell him something make sure it is kindly. Handle the kids, and if you notice you can't for sure then inform him in a kindly way.

Hugs and kisses are always good any time, instead in front of the guys otherwise the guys might want some too. Make sure to let him know to keep the making love part private.


On another note you seem to be a very nice person, so I like to add that what ever person you want a serious relationship with, take your time (years) and really really really see if this is the person you will spend your whole life with. If you can even better never get married and just enjoy your life with nothing serious, make sure the other party knows your intentions. I also like to add though, in marriage it is a different kinda love, a very valuable kinda love. Always do whats best for everyone like what you did when you asked this question,

Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.

Love and the Good Life will come

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