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GIRLS I NEED YOUR HELP...does she like me?
12-15-2012, 03:04 PM
Post: #1
GIRLS I NEED YOUR HELP...does she like me?
So I like this girl. I've talked to her on facebook and texting but never in person. I'm extremely shy, she's always with her friends. She’s really nice you could say. I personally think drinking is a waste of time and she drinks, so I criticized her about it. She got pissed off to an extent, saying that she didnt want to hurt my feelings and what not.

In February, Friend A chatted me on facebook saying this girl likes me and "she thinks your reallyy cute" and Friend A would pass it along. The girl denied it and friend A said that her brother said it, and deleted me on facebook.

I was walking up the stairs and the girl I like and her friends were nearby. I didn’t know she was there until she was already looking at me. I looked back at her when she was looking at me for a second only because I had to keep on walking.

A different day, she and Friend A were standing on that balcony and once I got on the stairs they were both looking straight at me. I looked at them both for 1 second each and looked away because I had to keep on walking.

I was walking out of school one time and I heard someone call my name from behind. I turned back to see Friend B just flat out staring at my butt. I looked at her...and then she looked at me. She has looked at me several other times as well. She keeps on looking at me with this face that I can't really describe. It's not negative at all, she looks like shes going to smile but I can't really tell what she means by it.

I added Friend A on facebook again the day before my birthday and she accepted it and wrote on my wall the next day saying "happy birthday timmm!!!!!" the girl I like, Friend B, and other people liked that post. 2 months later, friend A said that I don't have the social status to talk to the girl, and deleted and blocked me on facebook.

Between classes we were both walking by ourselves, and crossed each other. We made eye contact for a second, and then I looked away because I was nervous. We were closing to passing each other I looked back at her and she was still looking at me and I had a closed lip smile, and I think she did too.

I was standing on the balcony on the 2nd floor. As far as I saw, Friends A and C were standing on the 3rd floor across from where I was. Friend C waved at me, I waved back. Friend A waved and I just stared at her. She waved again and I flat out gave her the finger. She turned from smiling to having a blank expression. I stared at her for 5 more seconds with the same expression on my face and walked away. 2 hours later I was walking up stairs and the girl and Friend A were behind and to the left of me. She said "Hi Tim" without any emotion and looked at her for a second. I was going straight at the top of the stairs and they were turning right. I looked at her again as they were heading right, she looked at me, I gave her the finger again and quickly turned away. People on the 3rd floor can see people walking in the main entrance. I looked up there, and she was looking at me. There have been several times where she's looking at me in that lobby from far away.

I got a notification that the girl I like posted on my wall. She deleted it immediately. I went to my e-mail and it said "ew e" She said that Friend B told her that it was my birthday and she was going to post on my wall, but she deleted it and her friend freaked out on the keyboard and it ended up on my wall.

The other day she was staring at me as I walked up the stairs. I eventually got to the third floor and I turned around to see if she was looking at me. She was looking at me but looked down.

I was walking out of class as the school day was ending. I walked out a minute late because I had to ask my teacher a quick question. The girl, Friend A, and Friend B were there. All of them were looking at me, but Friend B pushed the other two out of the way when I was walking and they went into an empty area and they were talking. I think they were looking at me once I passed them.

What do you think?
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12-15-2012, 03:12 PM
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Ok I have to admit that I took the time to read through all of that, and I'm quite confused but I'll do my best to help. First of all, the girl you like really has some b*tchy friends it sounds like who just need to stay out of your guys' business. All of them sound pretty immature actually, but regardless I understand u like this girl. It sounds to me like she could like you but for some reason she's holding something against you but she seems to regret somewhat hows she's acted. I think the best (although it may seem hard and it does take some guts) is to just talk to her. Try sending her a message on facebook (or even better, try talking to her in person if u can) and ask her what her problem is. Just tell her u like her and don't want to play games anymore

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12-15-2012, 03:12 PM
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she likes you. what girl stares at a guy but with a smile?

oh. i cracked up when you showed the finger to Friend A~ Just sayyin'
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12-15-2012, 03:12 PM
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I think friend A might have liked you, and noe friend B. If I were you I would back off for a bit( Facebook and school) dont delete any ffriends just let it be for a bit. I think they proably will want the attention so friend B will come to u. So if ur interested in friend B it looks good friend A...I dont think so but there is a small chance maybe.
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12-15-2012, 03:12 PM
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Sounds like high school drama. the beginning of relationships are supposed to be easy and full of puppy love....good luck
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12-15-2012, 03:12 PM
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Just go straight up to whichever one and hit on them. Tell them you like them, flirt ask her out. make a move. Express your feelings for her. If it's mutual and she accepts, great! It's all about trial and error. If she declines, well at least now you know where she stands and can move on to the other girl, and so on.
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12-15-2012, 03:12 PM
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OK.
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12-15-2012, 03:12 PM
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She probably likes you! But her friends might not like you so are just giving her crap because they know and its annoying them. You should go talk to her, in private! Or maybe after school? Ask her out on a date! Whats the worst that could happen? she could say no! thats all!

Hope I helped!! =D
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12-15-2012, 03:12 PM
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jeez dude you can write. Well it sounds like they are messing with you so fight fire with fire. Mess with them, flirt with Friend A, ignore the girl you like and talk casually to Friend B.

Good luck, cause trust me you need it xx
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12-15-2012, 03:12 PM
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I got confused. Very.
But in general... there's too much possibility, since I don't know the situation much. E.g.:

(1) Is there any possibility your fb had been hacked? Because A looked like..sometimes hates you, sometimes nice to you. Probably someone accessed your account and post sth weird then delete it. Have you ever log in to fb outside your own PC? (Friends', library, etc). Third party programs? Anything?
(2) If it's not your fb, then it's A's fb. It keeps bothering my mind that she's nice...but not nice...but nice... and then there's this: "She turned from smiling to having a blank expression." ← are you sure it's not a CONFUSED expression?
(3) Well, if the two above is impossible, the other possibility is: A likes the girl. Is A a guy? No? Then she's a ... well, lesbian. Or bi. She was being nice to you when she's around A or A's friends. Including fb...you know how girls are...they even go to the toilet together.
(4) Why did you keep adding A? Just leave it. You like the girl, not A, if I'm not mistaken? Why don't you just ask A, "what's wrong with you?"
(5) Why are you so shy? Just ask the girl in person (just the two of you), say that you like her. Ask if she likes you too.

"I added Friend A on facebook again the day before my birthday and she accepted it and wrote on my wall the next day saying "happy birthday timmm!!!!!" the girl I like, Friend B, and other people liked that post. 2 months later, friend A said that I don't have the social status to talk to the girl, and deleted and blocked me on facebook."
"I got a notification that the girl I like posted on my wall. She deleted it immediately. I went to my e-mail and it said "ew e" She said that Friend B told her that it was my birthday and she was going to post on my wall, but she deleted it and her friend freaked out on the keyboard and it ended up on my wall."
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(6) It's been a year that two birthdays had passed??? Who freaked out? D? Well anyways, if what B said is true, then it's clearly the girl likes you.

Yes I think this is such a "high school drama". If you want it to keep it simple, don't bother about A, B, or C. Or D or whoever. Just focus on the girl. Ask her out. Everything else doesn't matter.
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