kids make fun of me nonstop, they say I have a gender disorder. How do I get people to leave me alone?

[Nickolas or nicole]

My name is Nicole but I like to be called Nickolas because I'm a tomboy. I'm sixteen now and I still do not like girl things like wearing makeup, spending most of my time shopping, impressing people, and ruining peoples lives. When I entered a new school in sixth grade everyone thought I was a guy not a girl. I addressed myself as Nickolas. Girls thought I was a guy, boys thought I was a guy, even teachers though I was one of the guys.
One day in gym(The day everyone found out that the new guy was a new girl) this one girl was hitting on me, I was unconformable with it because I'm not a lesbian, I am straight but I never hit on any of the guys because I didn't want to be called gay. But I was 12 so I don't need to be thinking of boys at my age. This girls boyfriend came up to me, he started shoving me, Yelling at me and all that bull-shit these days. I think he should be talking to his girlfriend about that because she came to me. The gym teacher wasn't around so this guy wanted to beet me up for it, so rite before he was about to punch me he pushed my chest well me away from him.
He said what the hell is this(I was so embarrassed he felt me breast, it was horrible). He ran behind me, grabbing my arms behind me with one hand and with the other hand he took the hat rite off my head showing my long hair. My mom says I can't get my hair short like a boys in-till I was fourteen in high school. so my hair was long and people noticed a was a girl. Everyone was laughing at me and calling me bisexual and a lesbian. I blew it because of that stupid girl, and she was one of them who was laughing at me and still does today.
Everyday I was tormented, and the kids told the teachers rite in class when they were taking role that I was a girl. The kid behind me took off my hat to show everyone again. One of the teachers chuckled at me. I'm glad I live in a different school district zone, my parents have me going to a different school, so at least when I'm home I can go places and not see the kids who make fun of me. I check my twitter at home, kids are blowing up my wall saying mean things to me, one of them said I should go to a doctor and see if I have a gender disorder.
Now that is just mean, that pissed my the hell off, it looked like everyone in my grade who had a twitter was being mean to me on there. I used to get hello's, how was your day, and things about Tony Hawk. Now I get is cruel and mean stuff. Next day at school I find this girl at my school, slam her locker shut, and yell at her saying what the hell was her problem, does she like being bitch because it sure did look like it, and I was wagging my finger in her face to never write something like that about me again. She is such a bitch, she was saying listen here lesbian, why don't you go fuck with some other girl who's interested OK.
She opens back up her locker like little miss perfect like she's not. She says I need to get checked for a gender disorder well she should get a reality check and grow the fuck up. I slammed the Locker door rite in her face to teach that girl a lesson then I walked away, I don't want these people thinking they have complete control over me. Everyone was like are you OK to that bitch but everyone looked at me like I was the biggest loser ever to live.
Five years later people are still making fun of me, but this ain't name calling on twitter, this is worse. Kids are beating me up but mostly the boys are beating me up, taking stuff out of my locker and throwing it away now that's childish, people are death threatening me, and this one time that girl who I slammed the locker in her face pored a whole carton of milk on my head in lunch and to top it of she put potato's down my shirt in the back. I was so embarrassed to kick her ass. I start running to the nurses office for different clothe and to wash my hair. But when I came back my boyfriend Kurt was at the principals office because one of my friends said he slapped that girl who did that to me.
Now I was really surprised he did that especially to a girl. Now (Present day like yesterday) I got mad at him a couple of days ago for something well, for something I was unconformable with that he was physically doing to me. Kids where beating me up in class, Kurt told them to not do that in front of him do that somewhere else. Now I'm so bruised I can barely even move, I was cuts all over my face from these people. What do I do, how do I make all the bullying stop. I tried to tell the principal but she didn't believe me because she has her favorites.
What do I do before they wined up killing me. I'm scared to go to school and I'm sixteen, I've been going threw this for five years now, what do I do. Please, I need your help, please leave an answer for god sakes. I can't just wait for till I graduate that's way to far away.
I have two years of school l
I have two years of school left. sorry about the cut off
Oh did I mention that not one person beats me up at once, a stinken gang does so how can I fight a gang off for crying out loud

[Carl]

that is sick as fuck... you should go to the definitely go to the police about it.. and get those bullies a juvy record.

[Khloe]

im sorry, i couldnt read your whole question, because once i saw the "subject line", i knew right away what to answer.
honestly you are beautiful in your own way and firstly, do you truly accept who you are? do that. love yourself first.

next, these kids that are bothering you, i know for a fact wont keep bugging you if you are confident in yourself. there was a guy at my high school that was gay, but he FULLY loved himself and he was a sweet and hilarious guy!! and because of this, the whole school knew him from his personality and not from him being gay. he had TONS of friends because he just went with it.

honestly dont let anyone bring you down at all. these kids, they arent going to be around for your whole life. you think you will actually still be seeing them in 10 years? people drift apart because eveyone lives THEIR OWN LIVES. people work, travel and do different things.
these people can only be around for so long, and then they are out of your life.

i dont know what your confidence level is, but if you are a really confident person, CONFRONT these people IN CLASS. just tell them, out loud, when they hurt you, say, "and what makes you so almighty that you can call me that? are you some kind of god? cause last time i check we are all humans".
gahhh these things bother me so much, because people dont realise what they are doing. honestly, are they kings and queens?? what makes THEM normal, and you not?? WHO is defining this? society? because society has its own problems already!

just love yourself, and be confident.
if you arent weak to just words, if you are strong and they realize what they are doing doesnt hurt you, then they'll stop. and honestly, after high school and college, you never see these people unless you REALLY REALLY try. you know, maybe your life will be amazing, because you might do amazing things, but for them, if thats who they are, they wont get so far.

lol sorry this is so long, hope you read it all
good luck
just love yourself no matter what. what makes someone so special enough to change who you are?

oh and the physical stuff, definelty get help from the police or something. someone somewhere does care.

[jaz213]

aw that's really sad
i know its really hard at the moment but when you get a bit older you will realise that people like that aren't worth your tears.
the only reason they do it is because they know they will get a reaction from you. i used to get bullied at school too and the best way to make them stop is to pretend like you don't care. if they say shit to you just say "thanks" and walk away.

[Psychopathy]

In my honest opinion I think if you are really getting wailed on like you are saying you are, you need to take a step up. If talking to the "mature adults" doesn't work, which wouldn't surprise me, then I personally would fight fire with fire and take the violence they have been dishing to you and dish it back harder, but I would reccomend hitting the guy because if you take it back to the girl it will just get the guys more pissed at you anyways then you would have to deal with them anyways. Find good friends who could back you up when you need them, also look for something simple that could be used as a weapon. I personally have a chain wallet that I unclip and wrap my nuckles with. I don't reccomend violence as the first solution but when it is the only solution you need to do it right and you need to do it hard.



EDIT: When I said find good friends I had inferred that they could help you.

[Shikira]

I think you need to talk to an adult about what is going on so they can go a step higher then the principle if she's not going to believe them. No one should have to suffer threw something like this and I really hope that you can take a stand. Stay strong because there has to be a way to make it stop, you just need to fight hard for the answer.
Good luck I really hope things work out. Don't give up until this stops

[Head]

This really makes me sick! I hear stories like yours and wonder what the hell is wrong with this generation of parents that their kids became so damn mean! It doesn't matter if someone's gay, straight, bi, transexual, black, white, ugly, fat, stupid, smart, pretty, thin, has gender issues, or whatever else they're bullying about. What matters is that that person is a human being with feelings and I'm willing to bet my left foot that if it were done to them, they wouldn't be bullying.

I don't know how things are ran in your district but, if your principal doesn't want to do anything, you could always go to the school board about it. They legally have to at least look into it. Most-to-all states have some kind of law after what happened with Megan...I forget her last name...that 14-year-old girl that was harassed on MySpace and killed herself a couple of years back. Anyway they legally have to look into it.

I've been a target for bullying in the past. I've been obese my whole life, had bladder control issues so bad as a kid that I'd often wet myself in school, I have quite a lot of "brain farts" where I say something really stupid, and, quite frankly, I look a little like a man. Ere-go, I've been a victim of bullying. I don't recommend my technique for people but I say if it works, why not? What I do is I bully myself. It sounds strange but here's how it works: I say really mean stuff about myself all the time. I've made myself to be my own harshest critic. Therefor when people make fun of me, it doesn't bother me and my self-esteem stays right where I want it to and I have pretty high self-esteem. Like I said, I don't recommend it.

But yeah, talk to your superintennent or whoever it is that's in charge of your district because you could potentially have a really big lawsuit for them--just don't quote me on that because I'm not sure how things are run where you are.

Good luck and don't let these people bring you down. You're perfect and beautiful the way you are. Stay strong!

[Anton]

Have in mind, they are the ones fucked up.