I have feelings for my guy friend but iam in a relationship?

[Abigail]

I'am in a longterm relationship with a man I have been with for two years and we live together. Lately our relationship has been more like a friendship . I have feelings for a guy friend of mine and he makes me feel all fuzzy inside which my bf does't. what should I do? I don't want to hurt anybody

[Nev]

Take it from me. I just got out of a 5 year relationship and i feel the same as you do, about another man (my ex). Regardless if my ex doesnt want to be with me ever again, i know in my heart i love him more then my current bf and my current is also my baby's dad. Since those were my feelings, i couldnt ignore something like that so i broke up with him. I can't pretend im happy my whole life. It would make me miserable. I think you should should follow your heart. If someone else makes you feel like that, And if you think thats how you should be treated, then i would break up with him. Even if nothing happens between you and this other guy, atleast you could enjoy your single life like I'm doing! And I'm loving it!!!

[Merryballoon977]

Take a vacation with your long term boyfriend to get your mind off your "fuzzy" feeling making friend.Have no contact with your friend while you are gone. Maybe he will find another friend and you can rekindle your relationship with your long term boyfriend.

[Good Life by Love]

Your confused. Why hurt people. Move out and start from there.


Recommended to take it slow, take time to get to know the person. Try to keep things clean, less baggage. Let 7 years of perfect relationship before marriage. After 7 years of perfect marriage then a child if desired.

If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love
Either way for later as a wife if you decide make sure to take care of him always in the love making area. I hope you can be stay at home wife ([no school]events with guys around unless your husband is there 100%) that takes care of all the woman things and he is taking care of all the man things like lifting, fixing working outside and handling all those jerks, and if you do work outside you know what I mean. I hope you can be a home wife so the marriage can be a loving one with peace.

Always talking is good. Find a private place to talk with time to talk. Never teach, just inform if necessary and in a meek manner. Handle the kids and teach them with few words and listen well, pay attention to details. If some parts kids can't be handled then inform the husband.

Be a good wife and make sure all the cooking and cleaning is done. Stay Fit, Smell Good, Dress well. Make sure to make love when ever either of you want.

Be meek. Quick to listen, slow to speak. Only tell him things when needed. Never teach him. If you do tell him something make sure it is kindly. Handle the kids, and if you notice you can't for sure then inform him in a kindly way.

Hugs and kisses are always good any time, instead in front of the guys otherwise the guys might want some too. Make sure to let him know to keep the making love part private.


On another note you seem to be a very nice person, so I like to add that what ever person you want a serious relationship with, take your time (years) and really really really see if this is the person you will spend your whole life with. If you can even better never get married and just enjoy your life with nothing serious, make sure the other party knows your intentions. I also like to add though, in marriage it is a different kinda love, a very valuable kinda love. Always do whats best for everyone like what you did when you asked this question,

Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.

Love and the Good Life will come

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