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How do I make things right when my boyfriend knows I snoop around his email?
12-15-2012, 09:07 PM
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How do I make things right when my boyfriend knows I snoop around his email?
This is the second time my bf has caught me snooping around his email; i told him the first time i would never do it again, but i'm addicted. He's a huge flirt, has a lot of female friends and I just want to know what he shares with them; though I know he's not cheating on me. How do i make things right? How do I explain to him how I feel!?

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12-15-2012, 09:15 PM
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Ok well first of all I wouldnt put up with all the chick friends thing. And to be honest, if he wants to have that many chick friends than he needs to get use to you snopping. Look im grown up enough to know that this is a shitty world we live in and men dont really want and need female friendships especially if your the one blowin him every night. So in my view, when a man and a women say they are friends HOGWASH they are porking, people need to get his kindergarten mentality out of their dam heads already. If your man cant deal with you snooping then he needs to drop the ONE MILLION chick friends. this is just you and you are jealus oh well if he cant handle making you comfterable then you two need to break up

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12-15-2012, 09:15 PM
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ugh i can understand. i had a boyfriend like that once, although i always respected his privacy and never snooped through his email. the best thing to do is to apologize to him, tell him to change his password.
You need to really think about why you dont trust him. maybe even disucss this with him. hes your boyfriend, you should be able to. Is it just because hes a flirt? then how is he being flirtatious? i told my ex bf he was being inappropiate when he told another girl she looked sexy. relationships should be founded on respect, love, and trust. if you dont have trust...gosh i dont see much of a relationship. i wish you luck.
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12-15-2012, 09:15 PM
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dont let him catch u
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12-15-2012, 09:15 PM
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You need to sit down and talk in a private place with time to talk. Hug your partner while saying soft and sweet you love him sooo much and you want this to be forever, it needs to be him and you only. No more exs, no more friends that is girls and just him and you.Not even flirting,looking or thinking of them. When yes then kiss. This will make your relationship very happy. A good life

If he disagree it is better for you to move on

for any guy:Recommended to take it slow, take time to get to know the person. Try to keep things clean, less baggage. Let years of perfect relationship before marriage (if you want you can always be engaged and married after years has passed). You can always accept the marriage ring and just marry when you have a few years of solid peace and love engagement/relationship. Make sure only settle for your soul mate with peace and keep in mind there are many soul mates. Arguing is normal but is it good? no, so make sure it is 7 years no arguments. After 7 solid years of perfect marriage then a child if desired.

If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love

Also I see premarital counseling working.Church usually has it for free. You can even attend after marriage. Make sure no medicines.


On another note: Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.

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