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[URGENT] What does this mean?
10-08-2012, 12:39 PM
Post: #1
[URGENT] What does this mean?
Well, there is this girl i REALLY like, and I don't know if she likes me back... i've been in love for about eight years... and haven;t given up.
So firstly, I am always nervous and act awkward around her, BUT... she acts the same; her best friend wrote on my twitter "[MY NAME IN CAPS] LOVES [CRUSHES NAME IN CAPS], the conversation went on and on and she eventually said this is awkward and it's always been awkward around us.
When I talk to other girls around her... or flirt, i guess, she get's all annoyed? and reacts with ignoring me, or speaking with eveyr male in the class but me... yes, it's what we ALWAYS do.
A week or so back, I thought she was angry at me, and avoiding me... but instead, she thought I WAS angry at her, this was a mistake... but do girls care if you're angry or not at them?(that is if you don't like the guy?)
All her friends say to me "Ask her out, who knows? You may get a yes!" does this mean that they know she likes me?
She claims that i'm a flirt with all the reasons stated above...
She says that she likes another guy, but when anyone around me and her says the fact she likes him, she punches them, but when i'm at a distance she doesn't.
She looks at me in classes, and when I look back at her (it's rare, I promise you) she looks away REALLY quickly.
She asked me to walk with her a couple of weeks back, and I did, but I stayed silent as it was a REALLY short walk.
When both of us walk pass each other, I always face the left or right whilst she faces the other, avoiding eye contact... I avoid contact because i'm just nervous.. but why does she?
When i'm NOT around, she always talks in this kind of crazy voice, but when I AM around, she talks in her calm and un-crazy (if that's a word) voice, which is a deepish warm sound.
I have a feeling she does want to start a conversation with me ALOT but just can't, I know I am suppose to, but.. well, she is just so different.
Alot of people tell me to go sit at the table she does for lunch (meaning her friends that SIT THERE), but I don't because there is this guy I don't get along with well (you see, the girl he likes has had crushes on me and what not), and it's like this popular table; I could get in and sit down, but the guy is such a douche bag and I kinda hate him... it's like he always has this grudge against me...
How do I start a conversation with her, it's awkward, around any other girls, I can DEFINITELY talk easy with them, but this girl is different, I can hardly say a thing.
The first thing I want to do is: go up to her and talk; the talk will include some sort of sorry and a bit where I tell her how I feel, i'm not this sort of guy, so can you guys help me out?
We're both 14 btw, and I really do care about ehr
Thank you

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10-08-2012, 12:47 PM
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Start by asking her a question, something positive, something like "Hey, I need a female opinion on something. A penpal of mine asked me for some advice. He started dating this girl who's bi, and he's fine with it. But it turns out that he dated her ex-girlfriend at one point. So he's dating his ex-girlfriend's ex-girlfriend. Do you think there's any problem with that?"

And she says whatever she says, and you say, "I never thought about it like that!"

Then, you start chatting.

After a few minutes, you tell her you've got to go, but say you'd love to continue this conversation, and "how can we make that happen?" Then wait.

She should offer you her phone number, or at least her e-mail - at your age, e-mail is better; it's more private and you've got more time to edit your answers.

Then, you hang out as a group, your friends and hers.

Then, you e-mail her, "Hey, I really want to check out the [INSERT NAME OF ROMANTIC LOCATION], with YOU. Just the two of us."

And that should be it.

I like the girl I loved get away, don't let yours.

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10-08-2012, 12:47 PM
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Hey im a girl n im also 14 I think the girl u like does like u back n i think she is a shy girl when it comes to her feelings n who she like because im the same i to get VERY! nervous around the guy i like n if the guy that i like would flirt with other girls i would to get soooo mad n VERY! upset so i think u should stop because it really does hurt when u think ur crush doesnt like u back. n it does make girls sad if they think the guy they like is mad at them i dnt know if this is for all girls but it is like that for me because u just think they will stop liking u or think differently of u because ur mad at them. yeah if u dnt like the guy then u wouldnt care but if u do u do care.n if her friends are telling u to ask her out i think u should because her friends know best as she must of told them she likes u n it looks like she doesnt say anything when they tell u to ask her out so she must be waiting.n u really should stop flirting because well some girls dnt like flirts i dnt hahaha. n when she says she likes another guy i think its a lie n its a made up guy but im not sure n when she punches people that say she likes u she is probably embaressed that u heard awwww n that is soooo cute how she looks away when u look at her hahahah n she is very brave to be able to ask u to walk with u n again she must feel nervous around u so she doesnt make eye contact because she likes u n might be a shy girl but she wants u to notice her n i think u should make the first move of talking to her because it is quite hard to talk to a guy n when ur shy look at them! but we do LOVE it when u do talk to us because we then know that u know we exist n that u like us n instead of siting with her at her table u should just talk to her when she is at her locker then u will get closer n be able to sit with her n u should tell her how u feel because i bet she feels the same way Smile
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