is your husband not happy in a marriage good enough for divroce?

[one_pretty_princess_4_scott]

hes told me he loves me and wants to be with me i keep trying i moved from canada 6 years ago to be here with him in the uk. he just says now hes not happy how his life is going, hes not working so its a struggle i put my all in into this marriage and i will fight because i do love him and i didnt move over here to let everything go u know what i mean?

[Cassie B]

It would depend why he's not happy and what steps you as a couple have taken to remedy that.

[Helen]

Yes, it is. A marriage is about two people. If he's not happy, why would you want to force him to stay?

[always learning]

Yep. If one person is not happy, they most likely are not going to want to put forth the effort it takes to make a good marriage, and you cant force that person to stay. The relationship would be one sided, and that is not a marriage.

[Good Life by Love]

He needs to get is behind and get it to the direction it needs to go and also work any job and go up the ladder 2 even 4 jobs.

Also wheny ou can afford it get marriage counseling.

After 7 solid years of perfect marriage then a child if desired.

If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love
. I hope you can be stay at home wife ([no school]events with guys around unless your husband is there 100%) that takes care of all the woman things and he is taking care of all the man things like lifting, fixing working outside and handling all those jerks, and if you do work outside you know what I mean. I hope you can be a home wife so the marriage can be a loving one with peace. He wants a feminine wife not a worker guy

Always talking is good. Find a private place to talk with time to talk. Never teach, just inform if necessary and in a meek manner. Handle the kids and teach them with few words and listen well, pay attention to details. If some parts kids can't be handled then inform the husband.

Be a good wife and make sure all the cooking and cleaning is done. Stay Fit, Smell Good, Dress well. Make sure to make love when ever either of you want.

Be meek. Quick to listen, slow to speak. Only tell him things when needed. Never teach him. If you do tell him something make sure it is kindly. Handle the kids, and if you notice you can't for sure then inform him in a kindly way.

Hugs and kisses are always good any time, instead in front of the guys otherwise the guys might want some too. Make sure to let him know to keep the making love part private.



On another note: Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.

Love and the Good Life will come

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