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what should i do so in love?
10-08-2012, 01:34 PM
Post: #1
what should i do so in love?
sorry its long u can just look through it quickly?
so theres this guy, and hes really popular and i really like him-i mean really like him, and once on twitter he said he really liked me too and i was so happy a day later i found out it was all a joke and he didnt even say sorry!...im really depressed and i dnt know what to do. He told everyone i like him and now everyone knows i like him and its spreading round the whole school-these mean girls keep making fun of me and are threatening to tell the whole class tomorrow, i cant just let it happen but there is nothing i can do. Also, i dont think this guy see's how much he has hurt me but if i talk to him over twitter and tell him he will just tell everyone what i say which will give the mean girls the satsifaction, but i dont think i can do it face to face i like him so much but its getting out of hand. I know inside hes a really nice person although on the outside he is a total jerk and i know that if he saw how hurt i was he would feel bad and maybe ask everyone to stop-he has power over people he can do this...what do i do? please help and no mean answerss--(i will give best answer)
Klariss
i will be giving best answer as soon as it lets me Big Grin thanks for the quick replies
Thank you everyone for all of the amazing advice! you were all totally great and i feel alot better now especially from hearing about the personal experiences and stuff so thank you to everyone and you all deserve best answer!!! but thats not possible so thanks to all of you Big Grin

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10-08-2012, 01:42 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that hun. ): You should stop liking him (if you didn't already) and forget about him.Plus,you should ignore what everyone says. He isn't worth those feelings.Your better than him.

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10-08-2012, 01:42 PM
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Dear, ignore him. Show him that u have high self value. Don't even try to chase him. Trust me, then he will comes to u.
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10-08-2012, 01:42 PM
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I have a similar situation that might help.
(this was in 9th grade)

Once upon a time the same thing happened to me except nobody really cared. All I knew at the time was one of the hottest guys in the school liked me. He liked me before I even liked him though. He was very popular and he just randomly fell in love with me in one of my music classes. It was very weird.

Anyway, he would play love songs on the piano for me and tell me jokes and give me the warmest hugs in front of everyone. He didn't even hide that we had a thing for each other. He just showed it to the world.

I didn't really understand, although I ended up falling madly in love with him. I guess in his eyes I was really wonderful cause he could never stare at me long without getting red or turning away.

but there's a twist! He was cheating on his gf the whole time. And he locked me in a room pretty much like just all over me and crap saying don't tell any of this to my gf.

Then one day he wanted to have sex with me I said no cause it was just wrong and then a couple days later completely ignore me although last time I saw him he tried to talk to me.

Thats when I really understood the fact the guys only want sex and nothing else. I learned a lot of lessons from this. I cried and cried for nights. It took me about 5 months to get over him completely.

People will trick you, abuse you, and make fun of you without thinking anything of it. Its highschool. You have to know that just because you are begining to look like adults, YOU AREN'T. you are no better than elementary students in a way. Who will be talking about this when your older? Just grow up ahead of them. Ignore them and be careful not to fall into anymore traps. Next time someone says something to you just be ahead of the game. reply with "why are you so obsessed with what I do?" cause hun, they are spending all of their time on you.
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10-08-2012, 01:42 PM
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Oh my goodness. this sounds like me... 6 years ago.. minus the twitter part. I used to be the uncool girl.. the nerd that everyone picked on (not saying that is you at all) and made fun of.. i liked this guy SO much b4 I got with my fiance lol. I sent him letters and he READ it to the popular girls and pulled my hair out at a performance... and the people were really mean to me. But you know what sweeite? With age comes everything.. bc that same guy.. along with al of his other popular guys friends are going crazy over me now. You're most likely prettier than ALL of those "popular girls" and hella smarter! BELIEVE ME when I tell you.. a few years from now.. you'll be laughing SO hard.. bc that guy.. along with others.. will be at your mercy. . and begging for your attention. Watch what I tell you Smile
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10-08-2012, 01:42 PM
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I think you need to realize that this guy is not a nice guy inside or out...anyone that would intentionally hurt someone just to make themselves or others feel better is pathetic. He obviously has his own issues regardless if he is the most popular guy or not, he will realize in his own time what a pathetic person he is. As for the girls, let them tell people, who cares if people know you have feelings? They are obviously no better than he is and karma will get them, so let them say what they want, I know it can be hurtful, I have been thru this myself in the past, but you know what? They will get whats coming to them....what comes around goes around...thats the best advice I can give you, I wouldnt shy away tho, stand up to those girls if you have to, let them know that you have feelings too and regardless of what they think its not going to change the way you feel. Good luck...
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