Does my ex still want me? Has she been showing signs that she does?

[A. Y]

Last July my girlfriend and I of two years broke up (i was the one who left her). For about a Month we continued to talk almost everyday up until middle of August. I figured I wanted her back after that month because I felt weak without her, I didn't feel like my normal self, despite how I felt over the breakup. So, she rejected my advances and for the next few months we constantly argued. In October we finally decided to leave things alone and stop talking period. I started getting over her and talking to other women, felt myself getting back into the single life. And one day we passed each other driving and she texted me saying, "And you thought we'd never see each other" Seeing as how that was the last thing I said to her, last time we spoke, that i'd never see her again, that I didn't want to. So, for New Years we ended up being at the same party and out of a drunken mistake I kissed another girl that night. That girl told my Ex and she started asking dozens of people about it, even contacting me, trying to be friends now. I thought, what the hell, I'd give it a try, and she became vicious and confronted me about what happened on New Years and argued with me. I did my best to calm her down, and a few days later we were going to do lunch but other things came up and she couldn't make it. She didn't tell me she couldn't and stood me up. So I stopped talking to her again out of anger. Valentines weekend rolled around and I was talking to this new girl, who I met through my Ex and I mutual friend. This new girl and I kind of hit it off and we got real tight. We talked a lot on Facebook and through emails. Well, she commented on a picture of mine that my Ex commented on a long time ago while we were dating. So, my Ex called our mutual friend and said, "Who the hell is this girl, and why is she commenting on my picture?" It was a picture of me that she had taken, so she received the notification. Our mutual friend told me about my Ex's curiosity of what was going on and I contacted her (big mistake) and she said she, "You know I'm a curious person, I don't like being in the dark about things" and told me a good 3 times happy valentines day during the conversation. After that, we didn't speak for a few weeks and I sent her a text almost three weeks ago asking if we'd do lunch. She said we'd talk once she got home. So, last saturday morning, 9:30, I received a text from her saying that she was home and asked if we could do lunch that sunday. So, sunday we did lunch, didn't argue not one bit. First time in months we made each other laugh and we enjoyed each other's company. During our lunch you could tell we weren't trying to look at each other a lot. But, I did catch her staring a couple times, even seeing me stare as well.

[chester stone]

Maybe

[voicelessrailway349]

of course she still wants you!!! its so obvious.

this is my answer: you are both still in love, and no matter who comes in yours/her life you guy will always come back to each other. good luck!

[Natasha]

Yes she does, and I think you still do as well, you two just play to many games. If you two were really over one another you wouldn't be friends on facebook, you wouldn't have her number any more and vice versa. Just make sure if you do decide to get back with her, that things will be different this time around. Because there's a reason you broke up with her, so there's no reason to make the same mistake over and over again.