What should i do next?

[Bert]

Hi,

I am currently in a relationship that now was at the edge of a sword. We been dating for four years now. Since then I was happy with her. She started changing when she finished her studies. She begin to intend to get me irritated. She got a very bad temper and so do I. But i know my problem and stay by her side and become her support even when its in a hard condition. She still does call me and giving me advice and etc etc...

She likes to find my mistakes and not hers. Everything that I do still unsatisfied her needs. Its stupid that i could withstand all this until this 4 years. Maybe its just me that been hold her back? Maybe too afraid of losing her and I always have to give in. She does have a very big ego on her side. Always seems to be keeping everyone to know that i do exist. Non of my pictures is inside her facebook, friendster nor twitter. Does its means that she was too ashamed who i am? But she still does hold my hand in the public. I know I'm not the best looking guy in the world but yet all does not ashamed to know me. We were planning to engaged this year but I have yet to met her family officially. They don't even know i exist.

Now we end up in a fight again and this really open my eyes towards all of this. Really effect my work and my health. All she could do was keep quite and do nothing as if nothing goes wrong and giving me silent treatment. This few month she been messaging someone and never told me about it. Must be some other guy.

My Questions is

1. How Do I make her appreciate me more?

2. How DO can I make her change this problematic ego of hers.

3. How DO I make me, want me who I am?

4. How DO I save my relationship as we planned to engaged this year?

5. I really want to be with her, How can i be positive about this?

6. From what you guys and gals listen to my short story, Do i lost her already?

Sorry for my grams and mess up english. Not my main language so bare with me hahaha.....

[Kevin]

give up on her

answer my question?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...223AAlCxaL

[Micnonacla]

1. leave her or tell her ur having questions about ur elationship. explain it to her. ppl often don't realise what they had until it's gone. and, if she doesn't come bk? she wasn't worth it.