why is my ex boyfriend callling after one month of breakup?

[Piya]

I was in a long distance relationship with someone for about a year. We could never really connect on an emotional level maybe because of distance or different personalities. My boyfriend ended things a month ago by confronting his true feeling about the disconnect that we had. I didn't contact him after that at all. Now he is calling me again after almost a month of no talking. I don't get it. What should i do?

[Ax]

WEll , it happened with me !
i loved a girl , she's far from me ...

blablabla ...and here we go ...We left each other.

I tried to call her ...she didn't answer me.
so i sent her a VOice message , to let her feelings move a lil' bit

i said , i can't live without you , you're my life , everything !
i'm not eating any more , feeling sick without you
breathing so fast
and i think i'll go to see a doctor
please understand me , i really love you !

does that make sense in that moment ?
well yeah it makes !!!

but now , i hate her
cuz everytime we get back to each other ..it ends with a break up !!



GIRL .... the proverb of today ( according to my ex. experiences )

Many breakups ...many problems
one way ...the end !

[Roselina Raja]

May be he realized ur love and missing u a lot

[Good Life by Love]

he wants to be with you again. NOTE he might have tried to go with another girl, r u ok with that?

Recommended to take it slow, take time to get to know the person. Try to keep things clean, less baggage. Let 7 years of perfect relationship before marriage (if you want you can always be engaged and married after that 7 years has passed). After 7 solid years of perfect marriage then a child if desired.

If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love
Also I see premarital counseling working.
Either way for later as a wife if you decide make sure to take care of him always in the love making area. I hope you can be stay at home wife ([no school]events with guys around unless your husband is there 100%) that takes care of all the woman things and he is taking care of all the man things like lifting, fixing working outside and handling all those jerks, and if you do work outside you know what I mean. I hope you can be a home wife so the marriage can be a loving one with peace. He wants a feminine wife not a worker guy. If you make double what he makes he should stay home.

Talking is good. Find a private place to talk with time to talk. Never teach, just inform if necessary and in a meek manner. Handle the kids and teach them with few words and listen well, pay attention to details. If some parts kids can't be handled then inform the husband.

Be a good wife and make sure all the cooking and cleaning is done. Stay Fit, Smell Good, Dress well. Make sure to make love when ever either of you want.

Be meek. Quick to listen, slow to speak. Only tell him things when needed. Never teach him. If you do tell him something make sure it is kindly. Handle the kids, and if you notice you can't for sure then inform him in a kindly way.

Hugs and kisses are always good any time, instead in front of the guys otherwise the guys might want some too. Make sure to let him know to keep the making love part private.

Reemeber your NEVER a push over, you LOVE so you give BUT if your ever taken advantage fix it asap with a calm talk in a private place with time to talk while hugging and ending it with a kiss and maybe love.

make sure your spouse can handle things, like if he is not good with money maybe he should handle it. I mean like saving for a 6 month rainy day and then increase that as much as you can as time goes on. Buy a house cash small to start and then bigger when you decide and ready to have a child so the child can stay in one community for their whole school life and a place to come home always during Holidays and for you to plant your plants and watch them grow and to grow old in, make sure to pay cash or go smaller if needed or just wait on the child/bigger home, peace is most important. Retirement, Vacations.

On another note you seem to be a very nice person, so I like to add that what ever person you want a serious relationship with, take your time (years) and really really really see if this is the person you will spend your whole life with. If you can even better never get married and just enjoy your life with nothing serious, make sure the other party knows your intentions. I also like to add though, in marriage it is a different kinda love, a very valuable kinda love. Always do whats best for everyone like what you did when you asked this question,

Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.

Love and the Good Life will come

Also I see premarital counseling working.

P.S. Email me if you have another further statements glhww@yahoo.com
P.P.S. More & daily words of encouragements TWITTER my account is = @glhww
P.P.P.S. Majority of my answers are for the majority, there are many variables to consider always
P.P.P.P.S. Click on the Yahoo Answers Ads to support this very cool program