Why does my husband take it so personally when I say No?

[Christie Mcdade]

I can't and Don't want to sleep with anymore of his friends.It is getting sick.
At first I enjoyed it becuase it was all new, but now I have to do things I don't want and are dangerous to my body..Am I right to be upset and confused as to why he doesn't understand?

[NORTHERN PEDIGREED]

He should take it personal when you say no. Aside from you being one when you are joined sexually, you still have an individual mind which makes choices you are responsible for in the end.
Tell him to stop bugging you about that and if he continues to do it divorce him.

[Marielle]

Of course u have a right to be upset! When someone forces you to perform sexual acts against ur will it's called molestation and rape. A husband and wife are meant to only be with each other sexually. That's the point of ,marriage...if hes making u be with other pple then he isn't acting lik a husband shud. He supposed to protect u from other men, not force u to sleep with them.

If he doesn't listen to u I'd seriously consider leaving him or pressing charges.

[Good Life by Love]

You need to address why he doesn't care. You need to address what are foundation of why we fight. Find ways to fix it. When talking to partner just hug while saying it. You can ask things if you need answers on yahoo answers. Write down before you talk to him. Talk in a private place with time to talk. Get to the bottom of things. Things needs to change because both of you deserve a happy life always.

If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love
After 7 years of perfect marriage then a child if desired.
I hope you can be stay at home wife ([no school]events with guys around unless your husband is there 100%) that takes care of all the woman things and he is taking care of all the man things like lifting, fixing working outside and handling all those jerks, and if you do work outside you know what I mean. I hope you can be a home wife so the marriage can be a loving one with peace.

Always talking is good. Find a private place to talk with time to talk. Never teach, just inform if necessary and in a meek manner. Handle the kids and teach them with few words and listen well, pay attention to details. If some parts kids can't be handled then inform the husband.

Be a good wife and make sure all the cooking and cleaning is done. Stay Fit, Smell Good, Dress well. Make sure to make love when ever either of you want.

Be meek. Quick to listen, slow to speak. Only tell him things when needed. Never teach him. If you do tell him something make sure it is kindly. Handle the kids, and if you notice you can't for sure then inform him in a kindly way.

Hugs and kisses are always good any time, instead in front of the guys otherwise the guys might want some too. Make sure to let him know to keep the making love part private.


On another note: Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.

Love and the Good Life will come

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