What can I do to get that "spark" again?

[Foolishcalendar009]

What can I do to put the spark back into my marriage? We haven't been married too long, but we have been together for over 4 years. I want to want my Husband like I used to. Like other guys, he wants sex all the time. A lot of the time, I am just not in the mood. But when we do it, it's awesome! What can I do to get back into it?

[Giberishx]

try role play some couples enjoy that maybe one day a week you guys can go out to a place add something new to your trips something you enjoy activities a picnic etc ...
if you feel tired try adding fresh food to your diet some exotic fruits or try korean ginseng tea if you can find it
good luck !

[Good Life by Love]

It in the head. You just need to think you want it, like it. It will start growing beofre you know it, it wil be more than him. Have fun with whipcream surprise, cosplay, pretend, foreplay and so on.

I like to just add because maybe I got your attention: After 7 years of perfect marriage then a child if wanted.

If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love
I hope you can be stay at home wife ([no school]events with guys around unless your husband is there 100%) that takes care of all the woman things and he is taking care of all the man things like lifting, fixing working outside and handling all those jerks, and if you do work outside you know what I mean. I hope you can be a home wife so the marriage can be a loving one with peace.

Always talking is good. Find a private place to talk with time to talk. Never teach, just inform if necessary and in a meek manner. Handle the kids and teach them with few words and listen well, pay attention to details. If some parts kids can't be handled then inform the husband.

Be a good wife and make sure all the cooking and cleaning is done. Stay Fit, Smell Good, Dress well. Make sure to make love when ever either of you want.

Be meek. Quick to listen, slow to speak. Only tell him things when needed. Never teach him. If you do tell him something make sure it is kindly. Handle the kids, and if you notice you can't for sure then inform him in a kindly way.

Hugs and kisses are always good any time, instead in front of the guys otherwise the guys might want some too. Make sure to let him know to keep the making love part private.



On another note: Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.

Love and the Good Life will come

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