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Why do i still have feelings for my ex? :(?
01-04-2013, 08:45 PM
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Why do i still have feelings for my ex? :(?
me and my ex broke up bought 5 months ago and she moved on after a week and got a new boyfriend and it was this ripped up dude and im skinny and no homo but he loooks way better then me! and she is still with him. She has loads of guys that inbox her write on her wall and i just feel jelous sometimes i miss her lots and i think of her so much. Anways i remember when i always used to tell her that blackberrys are not good phones and it has alot of players and she used to tell me how much she hates players and blackberrys and now she hangs around with loads of guys and bought a new blackberry and now im jus feeling like shiit i know i ment to get over her but i dont know how to get over her :'(

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01-04-2013, 08:53 PM
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How to move on from your ex:

Remove Old Photos: Make sure there are no photos of you and your ex lying around the house. You could be having a great day and then all of a sudden go into a drawer and find a photo of the two of you hugging in a swimming pool. While you may not have gotten sunburned at the pool, you might have gotten burned by your ex and you don't need to be reminded of it. Pack up all of the photos and put them in a box far away from any place you could stumble upon it. Save cell phone pictures to a folder in a location you never or rarely go to.

Go New Places: Going to the same restaurants, cafés and coffee shops that you went to with your ex should be off your radar. It's best to find new places with new faces. Don't go into places where they know you as a couple when you want the world to now know you as a single person.

Remove Cell Phone Reminders: Delete any old voicemail messages or texts from your ex. That birthday text message your former partner sent you last year might have been cute then, but if you stumble upon it now it loses its luster. Clear out your inbox and make room for all the new messages and possibilities.

Select New Music: Don't listen to songs that remind you of your ex. There's nothing like making an effort to put your ex out of your mind and then the song that played when you started dating starts up on your iPod. Clear the decks and make a new playlist.

Login to Your New Life: The Internet probably contains many reminders of your ex. Your Facebook may need the biggest clean-up. Head in there and delete any photos with both of you together. Also, the friends that went over to your ex's side of the fence once the split happened should be unfriended immediately.

Think Positive Thoughts: It's not just physical things that can remind you of your ex. Thoughts that we have can change our outlook on life, so think positively. Don't remind yourself of all of the things your ex did that you couldn't stand. Instead, be positive and focus on all of the things you're going to achieve in your new life.

Make Notes of Your Progress: Write down the progress that you're making as a new single person. Get a journal and put down your thoughts as they come to you. List where you've been and where you're headed. This will keep your eye on the prize -- happiness.

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01-04-2013, 08:53 PM
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it happens to u too huh, so sad that it always happens to us, anyway, my story is the same as the first answer, going to the same places that u guys went on as couple should be left behind, deleting all her picture from ur pc, phone or whatever that u have most of her picture, facebook or if she has twitter, delete everything about her and in fact block her an d delete her friends that too their side, and yeah stop listening to love music. i don't know how long u guys been together but if it has been 5 month after ur breaking up and u still thinks of her, I feel u, I know how u feel, i been with my love one for over 5 years, although it was a long distance relationship, i made every effort to to be here for her, we haven't seeing each other eye or eye but we seeing each other on cam, share photos, video calls, phone calls, txt email and so on, i was so much in love with her that this year i was planning on going to see her for the first time in our life but what happen is that i log into her yahoo messenger account by mistake and their i found her flirting with another guy and she has been doing that for over 9 months, when i call her ask her about that guy she didn't reply me, she was just shack of how i found out but i told her its ok, i can forgive u but all i want was the truth because i love her and she loves to why she cheated me with another guy and saying i love u to each other and calling each other darling that made me really upset and broke my heart, even thought we are ini separate world and time, i never cheated on her because i know m not a good lie and cheating is not in my nature so i got upset and went on rampage, i deleted her photos from my pc, her videos, i even went on facebook and remove my status from being married to her to being single, i curse her so much that it made the problem worst, remember all i wanted was the truth, whether she still love me or not and why she love another guy while loving me but when i call over 100 times and she didnt reply of course, i know it true that she is cheating and what got me even more angier is that i found the guy who she has been talking too, i got his phone number and contact him and he told me that she doesn't love me but loves him so yeah, it hurts even more but its ok, what i said on her facebook was public and international that her mom and sisters who knows me knows about her and her new guy and both mom and sister are very upset with her because she saw and know how and what great guy i am. my ex little sister told me she hates her older sister and my ex mom told me that she know hates her daughter because she is playing being internet whore, anyway, i don't want to believe that she is but after hearing what her sister said, i guess i have to, anyway, like i said, our relationship was close to 6 years, this year December was gonna make it 6 years but too bad its gone and yeah even thought it was a long distance relationship i made every effort to make her happy and be there for her but i guess faith has it for us and maybe it weren't meet to be, anyway, what m saying is that it takes days, weeks months and year to completely forget about ur ex but to do it faster it to try new place, get new friends and just take care of urself, u don't want to go crazy like trying to commit suicide like i did. lol. anyway, it not worth it ok, girls or woman comes and go. good luck and stay strong. don't let her ruined ur left and yeah since ur ex has many guys blogging her inbox meaning she moved on and doesn't care about u or ur past relationship. u should move on too, m moving on now, its been one month for me after break up but i feel better now, no more, fear, sadness and pain. good luck.
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