is this the friends scenario?

[peaceinstripes]

context: 3 weeks ago, girlfriend of 6 months decided she couldnt go on pretending to feel something she didnt think exists. i took it hard the first few days, but since then have been trying to clear my mind of anything associated with her. she, on the other hand, expressed her confidence that we could establish a non-romantic, non-sexual relationship without any difficulty. based on this last email i got from her, im not completely sure what she is intending: please decipher:

(her, 2 days ago): "Hey-- I just saw your status update so I'm assuming you didn't get my voice message... I haven't spoken to you in a while so I thought I'd say hi, and see what you're up to. Hope your job isnt getting too intense or killing your soul or anything like that... I guess it's kind of a sign that you dropped your phone so now you will be forced to get a new one since yours was on the fritz.

anyways, let me know that you're still alive,
C"

my response: "Hi, I'm fine, thanks for asking. I lost my phone on Friday, and also sometimes do not look at my facebook emails inbox because a lot of what I get is just from groups or events and is often irrelevant so I did not see your message until after your facebook chat window popped up last night."

(her, today): "oooooh haha ok now i feel like a huge idiot-- i thought you were ignoring me so i kind of freaked out at you on fb chat. whoops.

Sooo we should see each other before i leave for vacation! I thought I'd let you know that tomorrow my jazz troupe has a 2 set gig at this coffee house from 7:30-9:00 (one's at 7:30 and one's at 8:30) and I would love to see you there (although I know it's a weeknight and it's probably far away from you--) But if you can come, that would be great, and you can bring friends too obviously. I'm really excited about it!

Let me know if you can make it! No pressure if you can't though, I'd totally understand. Otherwise we should do something before i leave...

Great hearing from you,
C"

Remember, I HAVE been trying to ignore her, to rid her from my mind, but I didn't tell her that because it would be rude. She has called, left voicemails, messaged, and emailed me within the past week. Is she regretting her previous decision or is she just a crazy stalker b**tch?

(sorry this is so long, im utterly confused. why, if you dump someone, would you incessantly attempt to contact them within just a couple weeks of the breakup?)

[Jay Sharky]

Its obvious she likes you. She still cares but only as a friend. To her, you'll be a great friend. If that's not what you want, you need to speak up and tell her how you feel.

You know, something like

"I really still love you babe, and I don't think I can be friends with you, it hurts me too much because I'll always want something more than just a friendship. And that's not something you're willing to give me. So if you still care about me, you'll give me some time to get over the feelings I have for you and maybe in time we can be friends, but I need to be able to get over you, over us."

And then, once you're good and ready you can call her up, twitter, or do whatever and ask her to hang out once you feel like you can be friends with her. If you're never ready then don't ever get a hold of her again.

Or is that just too freaking hard for you to do? Please tell me you get it.