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How to win a girl''s heart when first conversations are through the Internet?
01-07-2013, 03:04 PM
Post: #1
How to win a girl''s heart when first conversations are through the Internet?
Hey folks, hope someone can help me out.

There's this girl I've never met in person, and who is a little bit famous because of the videos she makes (mostly tutorials on everyday stuff). Well, not too famous, I mean it's not like everyone knows her, but she does have many thousands subscribers.
In the majority of the videos in which she appears, she films herself alone in her room explaining things. She is only a bit younger than I am but appears to be very mature in her actions.

In addition to being absolutely beautiful, she seems to be a very kind, funny and sweet person, as anyone can notice in her video logs and other videos where she interacts with other people from the Internet.
Needless to say, she gets a huge amount of messages from guys trying several pick-up lines on Twitter and Facebook (she usually just says "thank you" or ignores them).

As mentioned, she has a Twitter account where she posts updates and interacts with her fans (mostly boys and men looking for her attention, but also other Youtubers and people suggesting things). She answers most of the questions people post there, even some that are very rude.

She also does have a Facebook account that is openly shared with the public, since it's only open to sign for updates, not to adding her as a friend. Looking at her friends, however, I noticed a friend of hers is friends with three friends of mine (not that much of a big deal, but it might come in handy).

She has also spoken of a few tastes on music, books and movies, and I saw we have a lot in common.
I would really love to meet her in person and have a chance of asking her out to see if we could
mutually benefit from a relationship. The thing is she doesn't seem to actually consider giving
attention to a guy over the Internet, whom she doesn't know and doesn't trust (and this is very wise
of her), because you never know what kind of person the guy truly is.

She lives in the same big (huge) city I do, but meeting her in person "accidentaly" isn't very likely to happen because she is smart and hasn't shared any information on where she lives. I could do a massive research and maybe find it out, but it doesn't seem the right path to take. Plus, in a big city you don't usually have great and interesting talks with strangers (I'm not that socially awesome yet). Maybe there's a way of using that somewhat distant connection of our friends in common, I don't know.

The only interaction I had with her is a message I tweeted in her page that was a pretty elaborate compliment on how her humorous personality and her femininity made her videos so extremely awesome. She was very sweet in her answer but wrote only something like "Thanks a lot!!!", as usually she uses few words because of the amount of messages she gets.

I'm a pretty old-fashioned romantic, and I would give my best to make her happy (she is already, but you get the point), and that would give me great joy.

I'm sorry for the long text, so here's my question: how can I get to earn her attention, trust and interest so I can properly ask her out (unlike those "Hey, you're so beautiful, marry me please!" kinds of messages she gets so frequently) and see if she likes me and if we can have a relationship?

PS: I know this sounds obsessive and it makes me look like a social freak who depends on the Internet to have social life, but allow me to explain that I'm not. I do have friends and had a couple girlfriends, although I'm introverted so it's not like I attract people to me. The thing is in this case the Internet seems to be the only way of communication.
Some may say "Go meet people in real life so you can find a girlfriend" or "Forget about her". Well, all I say is that it's not like she's a huge celebrity and is out of anyone's league. I simply wish to know her, let her know me and see where it goes Wink

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01-07-2013, 03:12 PM
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try impressing her with something she is really good at , like post a respond video on her video , and btw can you tell me her youtube channel , and no , its not for the reason to stalk her or something

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01-07-2013, 03:12 PM
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