This Forum has been archived there is no more new posts or threads ... use this link to report any abusive content
==> Report abusive content in this page <==
Post Reply 
 
Thread Rating:
  • 0 Votes - 0 Average
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
Girls now would you react if a shy guy asked you out?
01-16-2013, 08:34 AM
Post: #1
Girls now would you react if a shy guy asked you out?
Girls would you be freaked out or touched that a extremely shy guy asked you out. When he asks you out and he gets very nervous and starts blushing (prolly will look down to hide blushing) will this turn you girls off? Im currently in the same situation I finally going to ask this girl who i really care for to be my girlfriend. We have kind of know each other for 8 years, and I think she knows that I like her (caught me looking at her many times). She is currently single and when i try to ask he out i want to say "you are such a incredible girl and will make any guy happy, will you go out with me?" Will this be ok to say?? I am very shy, but girls have always said im adorable (I am in great shape too). I think if i start stuttering and blushing will she think im a loser. Im 20 btw. I'm thinking if she says yes would it be a good idea to take her to see the penguin exhibit at the zoo. Penguins are her favorite animal lol

Ads

Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
01-16-2013, 08:42 AM
Post: #2
 
Just do it

Ads

Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
01-16-2013, 08:42 AM
Post: #3
 
No, i won't be freaked out i will actually find it quite cute!i like shy guys in genral and i think they are totally adorable!so go for it and ask her out!Wink Also start flirting with her...

Try flirting with her!If you are a shy guy then try flirting/talking to her online...for example Facebook,Twitter,MSN and then start talking to her in person!Compliment her and be sweet dont be a jerk or a show off!Just flirt with her and be friends.Flirting is really easy here are some basic things you can do to start things off

-compliment her eg[your eyes are so prettty i can stare at them all day] and other things like that

-smile/wink[if you see her down the corridor walk past her smile&wink at her] really simple flirting and really effective

- get her number [from a friend if youre shy to ask her] and at the end of the texts put xxx

-make her laugh[girls are always up for a good joke]

-give her flirty looks with ur eyes

-call her babe and things like that

-hang around near where she does at school

-if she needs help on a question and u know the answer then help her out

-if she is walking behind u hold the door open for her

-if u have to do activites in school in groups get her to be in ur group

-talk to her online [[for example FACEBOOK or MSN]]

-talk to her in person atleast once a dayWink

-when u walk past her carefully brush you're body to hers.

-FINAL STPEP: ASK HER OUT!

Good Luck!
from Milly;)xoxo
Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
01-16-2013, 08:42 AM
Post: #4
 
I would think its really sweet specially if I like him back, but if I don't like him I wouldn't reject him in a mean way. She wouldn't think that your a loser.
Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
01-16-2013, 08:42 AM
Post: #5
 
Only ask a girl out if you are willing to risk being rejected. You need to understand that it isn't the end of the world if she rejects you. Even if it gets rough for awhile. And to minimize the risk over time you need to ask a lot of girls out, sincerely of course, to see how they react when and if they reject you. So that way you can make note of the signs she was giving off before the immediate rejection. If you ask a lot of girls out and they say YES, then you will get a boat load of confidence and won't worry if one girl rejects you.

It's win-win.
Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
01-16-2013, 08:42 AM
Post: #6
 
Girls don't necessarily like shy guys, but walking up to her and saying she's incredible isn't shy. You're moving in the right direction. You need to do it. Just take a deep breath. Even if she says she can't for some reason, she'll still be flattered and you'll be glad you did it.
Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
01-16-2013, 08:42 AM
Post: #7
 
That's so cute lol. I think she will think you are brave for a shy guy to ask her out. She'll say yes. Good luck!
Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
01-16-2013, 08:42 AM
Post: #8
 
I would be touched and feel special. Try not to stutter too much. And don't look down, look at her face ( you don't have to look her in the eyes if you can't but it would be good if you could) and just be like. "I think you're incredible, and wanted to know if you'd like to go out some time" leave out the whole "make any guy happy" part this time good luck Smile
Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
01-16-2013, 08:42 AM
Post: #9
 
You should go for it! Being shy is part of who you are. If she is the incredible female that is meant to be with you- she will not only accept that you are shy but she too, will probably think it is adorable. If she says that she isn't interested in going out with you than that is ok. It shows she cares about you and herself by not misleading you. If she says Yes than it gives you the green light to continue to be yourself around her. Good Luck!
Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
01-16-2013, 08:42 AM
Post: #10
 
Awww That's adorable!!!! Go and ask her out!!!! I would leave out the "making any guy happy" part tho
Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
Post Reply 


Forum Jump:


User(s) browsing this thread: 1 Guest(s)