thoughts on my married life?!!!?

[Ayesha Blue]

Written in third person

The husband in short has been seen doing many objectionable things with other women,including indirectly proclaiming his love interest in his colleague ( kissing,cuddling,making girl sit on his lap while he showed off his wedding ring,thrashing colleague for sleeping around ,concern with his female friend's sex life ,sexually harassing women before he married her) and this woman -his so called wife has absolutely no effect.

She went to watch him perform and the moment she saw him coming near her,she practically moved away completely,no one did and no one does until they start throwing things.
I was shocked.Why will a wife see her hubby and shift backwards and when he went away she came back and clapped??


She like, ignores all his actions and has one has one hobby ,taking her photos with her girlfriends, her own photos and photos of the foods she cooked.and posting them on her social networking site accounts and talking happily like a dumb fool,even when she goes to watch him perform she will be with her friends managing to take a few photos.

When she was supposed to talk about his dark times including drug use (didn't help him at that time),he overdosed and stopped breathing,she called the ambulance ,she wasn't even crying but no tears anything,just pretending it by pursuing her lips and stretching her lips

Her photos are ridiculous.Lots of makeup,always smiling, strange faces with sometimes cheeks sucked in,giving flying kiss,sitting on bed,stairs,cars,beach and shes always without her daughter who is only 3 years old.She doesn't work as well.And has to accompany him to every glitzy event where celebrities are, even though he doesn't take photos with her,
Her hubby's concern with his female friend's sex life also didn't affect her.Nothing ever does affect her.Doesn't she care about him??

he wanted a child as quickly as possible before he got married.and had already thought of baby names including selecting a name for a girl child and they met somewhere in a bar claiming love at first sight & just before marriage the guy tattooed her name on his arm but continued cheating(mind you the guy has a huge fetish for tattoos)!!

He loves his daughter a lot even though he stays out of home a lot due to his job.


Hubby has high social status,lot of money,mixes with high profile people ,very successful at work and has a huge paycheck at work, and luxurious lifestyle.

HUBBY also weird.He knows he cheats but why does the guy need to prove that hes a family man on twitter or in public,saying how much time is needed with family,family vacation,watching TV with wife ,kissing wife in the crowds when he can otherwise
He even wrote happy birthday to her on his twitter account when they were switching between airports and planes going to Hawaii for vacation.I mean why are you writing it on twitter wen you are together?!!!
As usual for the picture painted for being a family man.

shes 30.Hes 32.married for 4 and half years with 3 and a half year old daughter
what are your views on them??
Did he marry for a child and she for money?
Do you think there's love in this marriage and will it last?

[shika]

long one

[thomchez]

Can you face and accept the inevitible? The marriage is just a smoke screen because the man wants to be single and he is doing these things in an attempt to make his wife leave him so he can do what he wants to do...have sex and fun with other women. Accept and face the fact that the marriage is over and prepare to enter into the next phase of your life, without your husband. It may seem scary, but you're a big girl now, you will survive.

[john]

There's absolutely no love in this marriage. Both married the other for a reason that they both must figure out and claim to, otherwise, a divorce will ensue.

[Oh, brilliant. -_-]

2 points!

[h!m!]

I think he comes from a different lifestyle where glamour, sex, extra-maritals are common business. Money, fame spoil a person. More than values, feelings, relationships he is attracted towards that glitz and fakeness. As they are just attracted towards money etc, their lives are quiet shallow and frustrated which they vent out on soft targets like family members, parents, wife, children. He is a stypical male. He thinks he is providing his wife, child with luxurious lifestyles, gvg them money, but he is fetching out much more from you than what he is gvg. Remeber, your peace of mind, your health and happiness are most important. If u r happy only then u can spread happiness arnd u and become a good mother to ur child. You need to be strong enough to face him. You have to reply him back. If he gives you one blow, you give two. Its always Tit for Tat. His lifestyle has made him quiet a disturbed person and he has passed on that disturbace to you. Better stay away from him, be independent, be firm, have your self respect intact. The only way to deal with such people is to be strong and nothing else. The more the target is soft or weak, the more advantage such people take. Good luck!