A Guy Who Is Trying to Date Me Talks to Other Girls Online Behind My Back. What Do I Do? Can I Trust Him?

[Jae]

2 weeks ago I got a random facebook message from a guy I met in college. (We shared a class last semester and he showed alot of interest in me: stealing glances, staring, telling other people that I "seemed interesting and he wanted to get to know me but I'm so quiet.”) Anyway, we exchanged numbers over fb and have been texting on and off for going on 3 weeks now.

I randomly saw him over the summer at an event and he complimented my jacket, and asked what brand it was. YESTERDAY I saw him at another event (I told him I'd be there on business and he said he was going too, but he literally only stayed like 10 minutes because it was a boring place) Anyway, he said:

Him: I like your necklace, Mickey mouse?
Me: Thanks, it's from kingdom hearts.
Him: *awkward pause* actually I like your whole outfit today.
Me: *awkward and shy, looking down at the ground* thanks

We texted again today, and he asked if he'd get to see me soon. I asked him when he goes back to school (he's on winter break from college right now) and told him I would try to see him before then, but he never responded back. Stalked his twitter today, and saw that he was making plans to chat with a girl at 10:00pm. I also found it he talks to girls on Omegle sometimes. I don't know what to do about this. Can I trust him? Do I ignore these interactions with others girls?

[Richard]

I had a girl I weas dating online, I just found out yesterday that she plays around on me. go ahead sweetie and walk away from him. he's a player.

[Anya]

If you aren't dating he can do that...if u want to actually ask him out as date then talk to him about it before committing

[Georgia Hastings]

Him: *awkward pause* actually I like your whole outfit today.
Me: *awkward and shy, looking down at the ground* thanks

any guy who comments on your attire is more in touch with their feminine side, he could possibly be gay.

but I wouldn't rely on this small evidence to deduce such a broad idea.

but anywho, he is a p-l-a-y-e-r if you believe it or not

[newyears]

Honestly I do the same as him and I'm not a player. It's hard to find someone who really likes you so I look in many places, but as soon as I find a girl who is really interested, I drop all of the other female contacts and focus entirely on her.

But that's just me, he could be a player

[ThatKid]

Well, you guys aren't dating or anything serious. Guy's like more than just one girl. Just like us girls can like more than one guy. He has the right to be flirting/texting other girls and asking them out, and may the best one win. Hopefully you are the best one of them all! But, It's to soon to tell. Judging from what he said, he seems really cute and nice

[ssff]

no