Can a girl get out of the friendzone?Is it possible? Ill answer your question?

[Alexandra]

I'm 16 and there's this close guy friend ive been friends for 2 years and liked and still like him for about 2 years and counting. He had a girlfriend for almost 2 years and broke up up her almost 3 months ago which was very tough for him. 7 months ago when he was going out with her i confessed my feelings for him over facebook and of course he friendzoned me cus he obviously had gf. Now he's single and hes sayid how amazing and special of a FRIEND I am and how im always there for him and one of the few people that put a true smile on his face so im guessing im still friendzoned. Should i wait a little and ask him his feelings for me? or what ? tips? I see his tumblr and twitter and he posts stuff about love and im sure he's talking about his now ex girlfriend. So he obviously still has strong feelings for her and im just afraid they may get back together in the future then my chances are ruined..:/ He still texts her and sees her once in a while and skypes her..ugh:/

he broke up with her because he felt he was putting her as his first priority than God, family, school. So that's why. He felt God tell hiim that she's not right for him and that he needs to put HIm first instead of her. Im a christian too btw and if that's the reason then i bet he'll probably get back with her in the future...who knows. ugh

[Brian]

As much as you hate to hear it, I know of many examples in my life where someone held on to a crush for far too long. My sister confessed her love to a guy, and he snubbed her. He treated her like a friend, but she never had a chance. A guy liked my wife for years, and I never went for her out of respect for the guy, but when she started dating other guys, I jumped on board, and lo, I'm married to her now. A girl liked me that way, and I said we ought to see where it leads, and than I snubbed her a little (feeling a little guilty here, but what would you do?). Having feelings go in one direction doesn't make them mutual. I can think of many more examples. I suggest you try to move on. At the same time, I did know of a guy that caved in and eventually married the girl who chased him. I wouldn't hold out hope, but if you need some, it has happened in my past.

Anyway, you're plenty young enough. You'll find love some day.