How come my online roleplay partner doesn't roleplay with me anymore?

[Shnwlsn35]

I roleplay on twitter, I joined a community where we all take on characters. My character became involved in a relationship with another roleplayers but before that me and her characters writers became friends, they had feelings but both decided to play it safe and keep our feelings to a minimum and continue roleplaying. This went on for about a month. Then my birthday comes and our characters share an intimate moment, but things start to turn weird for the RP part. The day after she addressed my character by the writer name and I didnt mind it then, I figured we could have an out of character conversation. But then time went on and the RP started decreasing. Now tonight my character wished her a goodnight and she replied telling me (not my character) goodnight. Why doesnt she RP with me anymore? She RPs with a lot of other people in our community but when it comes to me she always addresses me OOC, and I have said that I want to be more IC. Im fairly new to RP am I missing something here? And then other guy RPers try to make moves, she declines their advances, but she doesnt make it known to them that our characters are together. Its bothering me because I feel like the odd one out and theres something shes hiding from me.

Why does she RP with everyone, but talks to me OOC? Please help I don't wanna quit a fun thing because of this.

[Dazed]

There are many type of RP'ers. If I had to guess from your account of things you are in an RP relationship she doesn't want to be a part of. Since she still sends you message's OOC it obviously nothing personal. Just ask her whats up? If for some reason you are to uncomfortable with this ask her to RP in a very specific scenario without any undertones of "relationships" hopefully that can help you narrow it down.

Also don't quit if you enjoy it; you will eventually find a group you will fit perfectly into.

[playbunny2k]

You know what I got from reading this (just another girl's perspective); a creepy guy who is getting way too attached and that some distance is needed... perhaps she feels the same. She is quite happy to RP with other people, why aren't you? You're almost treating the character relationship as if it were real; why is it bothering you that she isn't telling other people that your characters are/were involved and why do you feel as though she's hiding something from you? It's fiction! You shouldn't be thinking that way period.

I think she only wants to take part in casual RP but you are trying to force a relationship which she might have found interesting before but now is turning too weird for her.

I mean even when she told you goodnight rather than your character... sounds like she didn't want to give you an opening for more character intimacy.