What is a reasonable age to get married if..?

[DrumMajor15]

My boyfriend and I will have been dating for over two and a half years when we graduate from high school this year and....is it really not a good idea to get married any time during college?

[Ted]

Correct. Do not get married during the college years. If, you are still involved 12 months after both graduating and situated in some quasi-career, then you should by all means get hitched.

[Ted]

Definitely! Try to wait for AT LEAST after graduating from college. When you both are "real" adults. You would have been through a lot by then and probably matured more. I got married when I was seventeen, and I'll warn you right now: It is NOT easy! Especially when you're worrying about college, work, the future, and everything. To have marriage added to that is really going to make it harder for you! Good luck and just ride it out.. don't rush.

[anthentherwasi]

35-40 is a reasonable age no way would i have done it in my 20's wouldnt even consider it

[Good Life by Love]

Recommended to take it slow, take time to get to know the person. Try to keep things clean, less baggage. Let years of perfect relationship before marriage (if you want you can always be engaged and married after years has passed). You can always accept the marriage ring and just marry when you have a few years of solid peace and love engagement/relationship. Make sure only settle for your soul mate with peace and keep in mind there are many soul mates. Arguing is normal but is it good? no, so make sure it is 7 years no arguments. After 7 solid years of perfect marriage then a child if desired.

If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love

Also I see premarital counseling working.Church usually has it for free. You can even attend after marriage. Make sure no medicines.


On another note: Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.

Love and the Good Life will come

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