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Are there psychological effects over continuous rejection by women?
01-16-2013, 09:36 AM
Post: #1
Are there psychological effects over continuous rejection by women?
The first time I got rejected is by a girl was in 6th grade. She rejected me so hard that she moved to Arizona just to get away from me. During my middle school years, girls would always avoid me. They would call me names such as ugly, stalked, pimple face, etc. I was so mad that during my high school years, I decided to go to the internet for love during my high school years. The first girl I liked in the internet was a girl from Russia. When I told her I liked her, her response was always I don't know until she decided to get a boyfriend. Then I started to fall for a girl from Moldova, and she was the worst. I have liked her for over three years that I went through a depression during the rest of my high school years. She was always mean to me. When I ask her to do a Skype session with me, she would say yes then she would log out. I know she is real because she sent me a video with a present I sent her. When I told her I liked her, she said no. That is when I deleted her. After that, I fell for a girl from Romania who is now my best friend. I had trouble telling her that I liked her because I still felt depressed over that girl from Moldova. It was not until she had a boyfriend that she told me that she liked me too. After this, it was my college years. I decided to go get girls in real life. I started to have feelings with this girl in my college but she rejected me because I asked her out only after a few days. Afterwards, I became friends with the girl from Moldova again because I was stupid enough not to think that feelings actually come back. The second time I liked her, she said "I don't know". However, I became so jealous of her that I deleted her again because she said that she does not consider me as a friend. After her, I started liking a Mexican girl from my college, and this was the most disappointing one of them all. I lost many friends when I liked her because when I ask for advice, people would say "move on dumb ass". Now, she was the hardest one to move on to. Not only that, but she was a bad person. She would continually ignore me. One time I asked her to go clubbing with me and she said yes but she ignored me after wards after three calls. Not only that, but I heard club music in the background. This is when I decided to try to be friends with that girl from Moldova again so I could use her to end my feelings with that girl, but instead we got into an argument, and she confessed that she meant to lie and be mean to me. That is when I moved on from her permanently. I could have ended my friendship with that Mexican girl but our mutual friends keep saying "Don't end your friendship with her, that is stupid". Now, I actually wish I ended my friendship with her so I could save time. What made me stop liking her is when she got an idiotic boyfriend and when I stop having classes with her. Now, I like another girl from Romania. I asked my best friend about this and she said be careful, because another rejection would not be good for my mental health. I'm actually starting to be paranoid with this girl. I never told her I like her but I feel like she knows I like her. Ever since I started giving her hints, she has not been responding to my message. She says that she is always busy since she is a medicine major but I still see Facebook activity. I have been friends with her for over six years and she know that if I get rejected I would try to end my friendship with her. Not only that, but I plan to visit her in Romania. I want to visit my best friend instead but she said her parents will be out of the city and she has exams so she won't be able to see me. So is it possible to have psychological effect over this? I'm already having thoughts about ending my friendship with this girl? I'm always angry whenever I see a Facebook activity but I feel like she actually want me to end my friendship with her since she does not reply. I really hate the fact that girls turn evil when they find out I like them

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01-16-2013, 09:41 AM
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It is a cause for concern only if it's the same woman.
You may just be overestimating your market value (we all do).

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