I feel like such a loser i'm never invited to parties and am always home.?

[Sweetie]

I'm 15, a sophomore in high school. I'm not a loser but i'm not extremely popular. I just you could say in the middle. The thing is though, i'm never ever invited to parties. Ever. My weekend usually consists of me staying home by myself on the computer, or going to a sleepover with my friends. That's seriously it though. It makes me wonder something obviously has to be wrong with me because i'm never invited to party like events. I'm not mean either i'm really nice to everyone but i think that people are just intimidated by me people have said that to me before. But seriously i feel like such a loser almost every week but especially today because its New years and i have no plans. Everyone else has plans except for me. I'm going to be staying home and my sister who is 19 has a party to go to. What makes it worse is she asked me if i'm going to a party tonight and i had to lie and say that i had a lot of homework and i'm really tired instead of revealing that i wasn't invited to any. The thing is though i know that people i know are throwing partys i see it on twitter but no one bothers to invite me. It just makes me sad

[Allison]

You kno nobody really notices if you crash a party, right? If there's going to be a bunch of people, just go. If your parents ask who's going to be there, just say you and a few friends. :-). Rock on!

[Alex]

First of, u are not a loser, and make friends, more friends, it's all about opening your horizons, and if all that fails. Throw your own party! U can invite friends from all over, not just from school, you just have to be open with people and let them know the shouldn't be intermediated by you! Hope this helps!

[Katie]

I know how you feel. 9 years ago I was in your shoes - I had friends but was never invited to parties. I remember doing my hair and makeup just in case I ever got a last min invite. Have you thought of getting a job? I started working at 14, gave me something to do on evenings and weekends and another social group. I know the line "it gets better" is over said but it does. Fast forward to now I am out almost every night I can be with friends and enjoying it.

[Fallen Angel]

I'm exactly the same ( had no plan for new years ether) only been to one really party in my life cos my friend wanted someone to go with it was really fun and everything but I do like staying in as well, If your friend gets invited somewhere ask if you can go with them, or arrange your own party