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[URGENT] What does this mean?
10-11-2012, 04:16 PM
Post: #1
[URGENT] What does this mean?
Well, to start off, we're both fourteen... now, to get on with it, there is this girl that i've liked for too long (you would assume 3 or 4 years, but actually, it's been way longer) and i'm not sure what she is thinkning... i'm not sure if she likes me or hates me... please read through the whole question and then answer.
Well, for starters... a couple of weeks back, my 'buddies' (nearly all of them) and her alike, all asked ehr the same question... and i'm pretty sure you can guess what that question was. (if not.. it's "Do you like (my name)?"
After all of them finished, she just strayed away... we didn't talk as much... and well, we just didn't contact each other at all... I honestly do miss those times...
After a few days, my close friend sat with her... and he told her "i'm sitting here to get (my name) jealous", and when he got back... he told me that she said "I hate him, tell him to stop liking me".
A week or so later, she asked me to walk with her; you would think that none of her friends were around, but most of her best friends were right behind us or right in front... let's jsut say that they were close. I walked with her... but kept silent the whole time... you could imagine why.
A few days afterwards, she just started to say that she hated me... funny considering a few days back, her friend asked me "Why are you angry at (crushes name)?"... this got me wondering; why would she care if she hated me.
When i'm around her, I would get really nervous and speak with nearly every girl around me; what's awkward is the fact that majority of them have showed some affection or alot towards me, so afterwards, she responds by talking to all the males in the class and literally ignoring me... just as how I did to her...
Whenever I talk to her via facebook or twitter, she would ignore me... but before all of this happened, she used to start conversations and keep them going for well over an hour.
All ehr friends say "Ask ehr out, who knows? you may get a yes!"
Now, to show her physical changes around me:
When we walk pass each other in the hall or something, I usually look away, and she does too, my reason for doing so is because it's scary when talking to her... i'm scared I would screw up but it never happens around any other female... but what i'm wondering is why she looks away.
Her and my cousin are distant friends, but keep in contact... a few weeks back, my cousin asked her "how's (my anme)?" and she said that she responded with "He's a flirt"
I see her looking at me in nearly every class we have together, but each lesson, she looks less at me.
When i'm close or near her, she would talk in her calm or non-crazy voice, but when i'm away, she ALWAYS talks in her crazy voice.
She says that she likes someone else, but when i'm around and someone says "(crushes name) likes (crushes crush name)" she would hit or physically shut them up; however, when i'm NOT around, she wouldn't care, and just gives a bored whatever face.
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10-11-2012, 04:24 PM
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I think she might be somewhat interested. It's hard to tell. She's either really annoyed with you or she really likes you and she's playing hard to get. You can decide, because no one here really knows her as well as you do.
But I agree with your friends, yous should ask her out. You might just get a yes and be like..."Why didn't I just do that sooner?". Hope I helped Smile

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10-11-2012, 04:24 PM
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honey you're over thinking! you're just 14! you're allowed to make mistakes and you have to learn from it. stop thinking if she likes you or hates you. and tell your friends to stop asking her! that's too childish!Wink
what you should to is to try to talk to her by YOURSELF..start hanging out with her and you'll know if she likes you or not. you could ask her out or something if you want too. and if she's not positive at the beginning don't give up. you've been liking her for so long anyways!Smile
but if she continues not showing interest then you'll have to let her go. i personally believe that you should give it a try and ask her out.Smile
and remember: mistakes are allowed in your age. use them wisely!Wink
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10-11-2012, 04:24 PM
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Sounds like she is jealous and possessive. She is jealous because other girls talk with you and you tend not to talk to her. She is possessive because she wants you all to herself.
That being said, what is it you want? You need to determine this before you choose a further relationship with her. Do you want to be owned and told who you can and can not speak with or be friends with? Do you really want her as a girlfriend? If you chose a relationship with her, I suggest you talk with her early in your relationship about possessive behavior and your views on it. Just remember that it applies both ways. You should not be limiting her any more than she should be limiting you.
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10-11-2012, 04:24 PM
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Why are you scared????Don't be.
I'm sure she likes you.She's maybe just shy.Or maybe she just doesn't want you to break her heart.Because girls don't really trust flirts(you wrote it,she said you're a flirt).
She pretends not to care.Girls pretend not to care when inside we're thinking about them.
Girls do try to appear normal before their crush,in case,the poor guy takes them for crazy.
So,talk to her,become friends first.Then slowly slowly,become best friends,then lovers Smile
Just don't try to be arrogant and showy before her.Be nice,calm,caring and sweet.
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