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She just got out of a 5yr relationship 2weeks ago, but she she says she really likes me what should I do?
01-16-2013, 10:18 AM
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She just got out of a 5yr relationship 2weeks ago, but she she says she really likes me what should I do?
I met this woman when I was younger and stopped talking because we lived in two different states, it's been about 6yrs since we spoke and I seen her 2days ago in which she informed me she was happy to see me and that she had just gotten dumped from a 5yr relationship about two weeks prior. That same night we ended up really connecting kissing and I ended up back at her. The next day I met up with her at a bar she made a comment that she didn't want me to feel like I couldn't talk to other women because she was there which was weird throwing me mixed signals. Later that night I ended up back at her place again in Which we had become intimate. From that point on we had spent the rest of night all the way till 7 in the morning talking. That following morning we woke up in a great mood had breakfast and she told me that she wanted me to call her whenever to go out and that she really liked me in fact she said it numerous times how fond of me she was. My question is am I the rebound guy and what is the damage might I cause towards myself? She tends to give me a little bit of a cold shoulder when we are distant but in person she acts very attached. I am beginning to like her and I told her I don't plan I just go with the flow of things so not to think that I was rushing things and she liked that.

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01-16-2013, 10:24 AM
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don't go to her .you are her rebound....you will regret it

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01-16-2013, 10:26 AM
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01-16-2013, 10:28 AM
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When people finish long term relationships, they tend to have rebounds. You could keep in touch as a friend. But, have watched this happen to friends, most which ended as rebounds and they got very hurt. So would beware.
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01-16-2013, 10:34 AM
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Recommended to take it slow, take time to get to know the person. Try to keep things clean, less baggage. Let years of perfect relationship before marriage (if you want you can always be engaged and married after years has passed). You can always accept the marriage ring and just marry when you have a few years of solid peace and love engagement/relationship. Make sure only settle for your soul mate with peace and keep in mind there are many soul mates. Arguing is normal but is it good? no, so make sure it is 7 years no arguments. After 7 solid years of perfect marriage then a child if desired.

If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love

Also I see premarital counseling working.Church usually has it for free. You can even attend after marriage. Make sure no medicines.

On another note you seem to be a very nice person, so I like to add that what ever person you want a serious relationship with, take your time (years) and really really really see if this is the person you will spend your whole life with. If you can even better never get married and just enjoy your life with nothing serious, make sure the other party knows your intentions. I also like to add though, in marriage it is a different kinda love, a very valuable kinda love. Always do whats best for everyone like what you did when you asked this question,

Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.

Love and the Good Life will come

Also I see premarital counseling working.Church usually has it for free. Make sure no medicine

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