Should I feel embarrassed?

[Curious Mind]

Lets just say I'm feeling VERY down in the dumps about this. I was out at a restaurant when I noticed a group of guys and his friends staring at me. I was sitting down alone charging my phone when he and his buddies came up and sat at the table beside me. He asked me if I was getting some juice for my phone and I said yes and giggled. I also said I was texting and he said ''oh you must be popular'' and I laughed and said my popular days are over. He asked for my number and I gave it to him because he was fine and I like black guys. Well we texted over the next few days then he asked whether I had Facebook instagram or twitter and I said no, that I deleted them after a bad breakup and was a pretty private person when it came to those sites. Then bam.. It's been a month and he's never texted me since. I feel so ugly and worthless now. Why did he do that?

[Elena]

You shouldn't feel ugly because he has already seen you in person and clearly you two started talking. He probably thought you were lying about deleting them and was using it as a was to brush him off so you didn't have to give it to him. Anyways, someone who makes you feel worthless is not worth your time so don't look to much into it. Hope this helps!

[Bamagirl]

Some men are number collectors, or he may be in a relationship and was just messing around trying to get a rush by seeing if he still had it type thing. Dumb, yes, but there is a reason women are the superior sex Chin up, someone genuine will come along. P.S. I suggest you don't say negative things about yourself to yourself or others.

[Bamagirl]

so he was staring at you, sat at a table next to you, asked for ur number...and dissapeared? sounds like maybe he lost ur number? lost his phone? maybe he has a gf now and had to stop talking to other girls? text him silly...just to see if maybe he lost ur #?

[Merrycup736]

Don't feel embarrassed. He liked the way you looked. He just lost interest. Maybe after hearing about your baggage he figured you weren't as fun as he thought you were. No biggie!