Is he interested or playing some sort of game?

[Paz Inez]

Is he interested or playing some sort of game?

I'm dating this guy I've met through online dating website. We have dated thrice already and we slept together the third time at his place. He was really nice, accommodating and sweet the times we were together. He seems like really a great guy. He texts me everyday and I really don't have to text him first cause he texts even if I don't. He seems interested in the things I do. I only wonder why he doesn't seem so eager to meet up with me again. When I try to initiate a meeting, he'll give reasons why he can't and all that but STILL he texts me. If he has gotten what he wanted then why is he still texting me? Why is he not eager to see me again? We talked and he said that he is not dating someone else but I can't help but think that I am only his back-up plan or something. I am utterly confused what kind of game he is playing. He is in the military by the way. I know he has time cause it's his vacation. If I ask him "What are your plans tomorrow?", he'll be like "I'll go to my grandparents." It's been 3 days since we have last seen each other and we communicate everyday but it just feels like he doesn't make plans that we see each other again. Please help! I am confused!

Thanks!

[Myrtle]

Some people do not like commitment. Take the hint and move on if you want a real relationship. Avoid 'catfish' if you can. You are the boss of you. Go after what you want.

Catfish Online Dating
A 'catfish' is a person who creates a false profile online in the hopes of luring people into a romantic relationship. They pretend to be someone they are not by using another persons pictures and information. 'Catfish' use social media such as Facebook or Twitter as well as internet dating sites with the intention of getting someone to fall in love with them. What are some warning signs that indicate you may be dealing with 'catfish'?
If you have fallen in love from behind the keyboard and have not yet met in real life, you might be a victim of a 'catfish'. When someone is reluctant to meet face to face, maybe they are misrepresenting themselves. Unless you just want to be a digital penal, move on.
If it seems to good to be true, be careful. Stay away from model types. 'Catfish' can post stock photos or pictures they have found on the internet. The real person might be overweight, an amputee or deaf and rather you did not know these realities. Check Facebook profiles and use Skype. Have them hold up their drivers license. Authenticity will ensure you are a winner.
Watch for abnormal behavior in communication - if they are not consistent online they are not going to be consistent in a relationship. If they do not follow through with scheduled chat dates, that may indicate that your special someone is being untruthful.
The online dating masquerade is more prevalent than one might think so always use your instincts. Be candid about each others values, dreams and life experiences. The best marker of a legitimate relationship is when your prospective match wants to introduce you to his or her family and friends.
At the end of a digital day, online dating is a numbers game. You need to play to win - but always use common sense. The need to love and be loved is so great that some people feel the need to expand the truth in their online dating profiles in order to find a fit. Be diligent and have fun.
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