I feel like a big whore :,(?

[Ashleigh jo]

Well, me and my well.. now ex boyfriend had sex... we dated for 3 months I have known him for a year and we started dating this year when school started..
well our 2 month anniversary we had sex... I didn't want to but he did... he pretty much pressured me into it.. Anyways, we had sex then a month later his grandmother sent him to California because he's been in drugs..
I told my mom we had sex... She's really upset and took my phone and says I have to gain her trust back.. How do I do that?

I am 15 years old (Be 16 in January) and lost my virginity.. Am I a whore?

[James]

In my opinion your not a whore but I don't think its quite right at 15...

[Jack]

No you are not i know quite alot of 15 year olds who have lost their virginity

[RIcky]

No ur not! Uve learnt a hard lesson! This will aid u in becoming a stronger person! Ur mum cares and worries bout u! Remember u r her little girl! Us parents have a strange way of trying to protect yous sometimes

[Jonah]

I know plenty of people that have lost their virginity before 15, you're not at all. And the fact that you feel bad just emphasizes the point. Don't feel bad, you didn't do anything wrong, although in the future don't let a guy pressure you into anything that you aren't ready for ethier.

[tweetybird]

No you are not a whore. Don't let people pressure you into sex because you will feel bad about it!

[...?]

Definition of the word whore: n.
1. A prostitute.
2. A person considered sexually promiscuous.
3. A person considered as having compromised principles for personal gain.

You are not any of the definitions above. You're a human being who made a mistake, just like everyone else has done - myself included. Telling your mom what you did was very good of you.

So, how do you gain her trust back? Well, first you have to understand how important trust is in a relationship. It will take time for her to trust you again - how long it will take I can't say because I don't know anything about your mom or what she's like.

To begin, if you haven't done so already, admit what you did to her was wrong and apologize. Don't make any excuses - accept responsibility for your actions or else admitting what you did was wrong and apologizing to her will mean nothing (if you've done all of this already then forget this part). You can also show her you're trustworthy by not ever doing this again. Don't do things behind her back and make sure to be honest with her about things. You might even want to consider letting her have access to the private areas in your life for a while - meaning, giving her access to your Facebook account, email, Twitter, diary, or whatever you have that's private or consider to be private, so that she can see you're not hiding anything from her.

Good luck with everything.

[Ron]

no whores/sluts screw indiscriminately, you are just a young and still immature girl who made a very bad decision, you gain her trust back by doing your chores without constant reminding, work hard to bring up your grades, if something needs to be done volunteer without your mom asking, if you have any younger siblings do things with them, pay attention to house things, if there is a mess just clean it up, make sure you don't act like there is only one person in the universe (you)