Do I still trust him?

[rawrwithme]

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. i know this happened a while back but and back in September of 2012 I found out he was sexting with someone. Usually I dont look through his phone because I trust him; but every time we spend time with each other he would always look and read my text messages and check my facebook and twitter. I'm 16 and he's 17 now. When I asked him who was this girl, he told me she was just a friend. And it got me mad and I told him, "I'm pretty sure you don't go around calling your friend 'baby' when you don't even call me that." And I gave him back his phone. I didn't bother to listen to what he had to say because it was obvious that he was cheating on me. Later that day he called me around 6 time but i didn't answer his call. I guess he tried calling me at night and I gave in and listened to what he had to say. He told me she was just a friend he knew before he meet me and he has his "needs" and blamed me for not having sex with him. He also said that SHE was the one who cut off the whole sexting relationship and hasn't contacted him since July of 2012. And obviously I was mad because I asked about her in the 2 years ago when we started our relationship and he replied with, "she's just a friend". I asked him what he would do if she didn't break it off; and he said he would've broke cut off but he didn't think ill find out." We continued talking that night but I was crying and didn't feel like I need to listen to him talk anymore so I replied with one worded answers and he told me that I was being different and hated the "new" me. It's been 3 months since it all happened. I never broken up and gotten back together. I forgave him that night but I never forgotten how bad he hurt me. But now whenever he talks to a girl or texts someone (boy or girl) I would get mad and I would question him and he would always give me an answer. He has been a lot more honest with me after what happened and spent more time with me.
He's so buys me what I want (depending on the cost; food or clothes) or tries to surprise me with things like flowers on my 16th birthday in September and a $60 wallet from Calvin Klein for Christmas. But lately he's been talking about different girls, cause he knows I get cause he knows I get jealous easily, or ask me questions like "what would you do if you saw a girl, that's not you, kiss me (mouth to mouth) but I didn't kiss her back?" He also compared me to his ex and said he likes her more than me cause she would do whatever he said (their relationship was back in elementary school like 4th grade) like carry his books or pick up his pencil. and later that day i snapped and told him to go back with her if he misses her so much because i was tired of hearing about her. he apologized after i didnt repy to his text. Why isn't asking these question and trying to make me jealous?

[Kathleen]

You are the only person who can decide if you trust him or not.

Trust is a highly important thing in a relationship. If you don't have it, don't bother.

Anyone who tells you he's cheating because you won't have sex with him doesn't care about you as much as he's leading you to believe. You're not married, he's a boyfriend - not a husband.

[Jake]

No matter how long and interesting your story is, I still have no idea if you trust the guy or not.

This is something to talk with your girlfriends about.

[Big Rossi]

I think you have lost trust for him. But honestly he did it to himself. Honestly, i would be mad if I found out my gf was doing stuff like that.

[Devansh Gaur]

Hello there, its very much hurting when ur friend ignores you. Lets see ur problem. You must not trust him. If hes possessive for you and try to check ur mails and just closing a matter of a girl or hiding a new relationship. It can either be a relationship or a new friend. But since hes talking to her so long, this might be a starting of a new relationship. Its complicated but try to understand. Ask yourself is he important to you or you are just going for him for a particular reason.
U must get a relaxation time I mean to say Break up. Thats all. This will lighten ur heart as well. For few days u will feel irritated but after that u will realize that u have done a great work.

[peach]

You are both young, hes interested in other girls too. and he was getting into someone else. .you arent getting married that will happen alot till you find MR wonderful in the way far future

[Devansh]

Hello there, its very much hurting when ur friend ignores you. Lets see ur problem. You must not trust him. If hes possessive for you and try to check ur mails and just closing a matter of a girl or hiding a new relationship. It can either be a relationship or a new friend. But since hes talking to her so long, this might be a starting of a new relationship. Its complicated but try to understand. Ask yourself is he important to you or you are just going for him for a particular reason. Gifts never play a role in a relationship. A good relationship goes with the best time spend with each other without any problem.
U must get a relaxation time I mean to say Break up. Thats all. This will lighten ur heart as well. For few days u will feel irritated but after that u will realize that u have done a great work.

[quietOverlord764]

Broadly speaking, there are two types of boys: players and non-players
Players, unfortunately rarely change.. They don't necessarily lie. They mean, ( at the time) what they say, but have weak wills and are easily swayed and tempted.

Non-players also can break your trust, but nowhere near as much as players.

Therefore the answer to your question is to thoroughly KNOW YOUR MAN, to discover what type he is...then you should feel a good modicum of trust.