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does he really mean what he says about this? 10 points for best answer?
10-11-2012, 05:26 PM
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does he really mean what he says about this? 10 points for best answer?
ok so me and my ex went out for a year and 2 months and i've been thinking about all the stuff he was telling me about what went wrong between us and it just hurts. he's done a lot of nice things for me in the past like taking me out wherever i wanted and bought me stuff, he treated my friends and family very nicely as well as me, he never cheated or treated me badly in any way, and he talked to me almost every day. we were ina long distance relationship since i went to college upstate and he went to college in the city and the things that really hurt me throughout the relationship was that every time i came to visit on the weekends (for 3 days), he would only come for 1 day and the rest he would use them to rest or whatever. also whenever it came to breaks, he would only visit like a few times instead of visiting as much as possible. every time i told him something that bothered me, he would think it was a big deal and not do anything about it and as much as i hated repeating it to him, he always thought it was annoying and that it irritated him and he would post it up on Twitter instead of telling me how he felt about it because every time i would say something that bothered me, he wouldn't say anything back -__-
i never yelled, cursed, or insulted him while complaining and neither did he so idk why he found it so annoying when i was trying to help him back then. we talked about it and he said he obviously made a mistake by saying those things without talking to me about it and that he asked for my forgiveness but i don't even know if i can become friends with him because what if he says things about me again even if we're not together anymore
i know it's over now and i don't want to go back to him but hey i was with him for over a year and it's not that easy to let go of someone like that. i remember when he broke up with me, the last few words he said were that he really appreciated all the stuff i did for him, he thinks i'm a great girl (he always told me that) and i deserve way better than him, and that he really enjoyed being with me more than any other girl he's been with in the past. does he really mean all of that? i'm just wondering because of the fact that he wrote how irritating i was on Twitter every time i complained to him about something.

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10-11-2012, 05:34 PM
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".......ex ....."


And yet again today on Yahoo [2,876 times since 00:00] we have a 3rd grader who refuses or cannot understand the meaning and spelling of "EX"......



[wonders why she doesn't "get it" that he has another girlfriend/boyfriend/Labrador/all three already and probably did the last 7 months of their 14 month relationship....]

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10-11-2012, 05:34 PM
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Just because he wrote on twitter that you were complaining doesn't invalidate what else he said about how great you are.
You sound like a great girl.
Keep your head up.
Learn from the past.
There will be another guy that will love you.
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10-11-2012, 05:34 PM
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The truth is, people take social networking sites way too seriously and put way too much thought into what goes up there. I agree, it was wrong for him to do that, and immature as well. It sounds like he recognizes that now and is sorry for it. I don't think that's something you should let bother you. It sounds like he really did enjoy being with you and cared about you. Believe what he says; if you trusted him all along, you have no reason not to now. Don't take things posted on Twitter seriously. They mean a lot less than a relationship that lasted over a year. Good luck Smile
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