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My best friend cut me out of her life what do I do about it?
01-18-2013, 09:08 PM
Post: #1
My best friend cut me out of her life what do I do about it?
My best friend (who is a girl. I'm a guy.) and I were the best of friends. From the day we met, we connected very well and quickly became bff's. We talked everyday often until 2, 3 A.M. We were very affectionate towards each other saying how much we loved each other (as friends. Though she did mention us hooking up. We never did.) She often told me how amazing I was and how much I make her smile and make her day. Typical stuff a best friend wants to hear. I truly loved and care about her. I'd be there for her for anything and put her happiness above my own. A little while ago, I noticed she was different. Distant. Less cheerful (she was usually ecstatic to talk to me). I brought it up but she brushed it off. Then the very next day is when she decided to cut me completely out of her life. She's ignored my messages and unfollowed me in Twitter and defriended me on facebook. It's been about 5 weeks since it happened, and it hurts every single day. The first few days after it happened, I was just like a robot. Went through the motions of daily living but I wasn't really there. I was totally out of it. It doesn't hurt as much as it did then, but it still torments me every single day. The fact that I don't know why she did it is the main reason why I can't move on. She was so sweet and caring this just isn't like her.. A little before the incident, she brought up a boy and how she never liked anyone so quickly. He played her, there was another girl he's going with but he told her he wouldn't mind her company just not right now. She cried a lot over him rejecting her but still likes him ( she did when we were still friends). Maybe she cut me off because there was an attraction between us and she doesnt want It to affect her chances with this guy? Some guy Is no excuse to betray a best friend though...So what should I do? I probably sound like a fool by saying this, but I want her back. Our friendship was very important to me. Should I confront her or forget her?

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01-18-2013, 09:16 PM
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If she's worth it, fight the good fight my man. Maybe someone told her lies about you, she has to let you know

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01-18-2013, 09:16 PM
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You were the boy she brought up.... She liked you.But apparently you didn't like her back.she became heart broken.tried to get over you with you still in her life.found out she couldn't , so she cut you out to get over you. Now you feel the pain she felt.
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01-18-2013, 09:16 PM
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m so sorry. i know how it feels, i have been there and i know it really hurts.
just confront her and ask her what is wrong so at least you know why she stopped talking or it will keep tormenting you.
if she doesn't talk to you at all or replies or anything, just leave her alone and don't bother. get her out of your life then i know its tough but do that. if she ever cared about you she'll come back if she didn't then well she was a lesson life taught you and you'll find better friends who will never leave you.
good luck and keep smiling Smile
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01-18-2013, 09:16 PM
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Ohh I feel for you, its kinda like that with this boy who used to be my best guy friend, he did'nt fancy me though but we're so close and them boom! He ditches me to find someone else to obsess over and then ditch them again like some silly OCD routine Sad It sucks but maybe this is what she does too, some ppl are like it, its either that or you've done something to upset her, try talking about it and see if you can work it out, I wish you luck
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