I need advice...am i wrong ?

[BeeBop]

Ok, so me and my now EX boyfriend have broken up after 3 years for something really small I was going to take him back up until he started to write mean things about me on twitter and calling my phone at least 50-60 times a day to call me a ***** and bring his family into it to gang up in me as well, THEN yesterday he left 3 voicemails crying and begging for me to come back (i only think it was because i met someone else and he was jealous details later) When I refused he called me a hoe & ***** etc...he even called my mother to tell her to tell me to give him a call basically he is acting WAY out of character i have never out of 3 year ever seen him act this way and disrespect me that way he did he called me friday night to tell me no one else will never accept me or I would never be good enough for anybody else to want me...I think he is upset that i have met someone else and i really like this new guy, i do think i was wrong with the way i went about it (i started talking to this guy like a day after we broke up) so i think he is jealous of that...I have had sex with this other guy ( ididnt just meet him Ive known him at least 4 years even before my ex) So am i wrong for not taking him back? if he disrespects me once will he do it again? and if you do think im wrong what am i wrong for? I REALLY need actual advice...no mean comments please

--Thanks
Ps. I did take his virginity is this a reason why he is acting this way ?

[Jmy]

Is his name Rock Steady?

[prouddowntown076]

no just move on

[eadyson]

I think you already know what to do. I'll just help to push you further in that direction. Once someone gets away with disrespecting you, they will continue to do it. You walked away from this guy and he is doing his very best to show you why that was a good decision (tantrums, name-calling, immaturity, etc.) Sweetheart, you dodged a bullet. Consider yourself fortunate, chalk this up to lessons learned and move on with your life.

[?]

I put myself in your shoes and If I were you I would not tolerate my boyfriend/ex talk to me like that. If he does it once he WILL do it again. I also put myself in his shoes and try to understand why he is reacting lile that and came to this conclusion. Sometimes we tend to say stuff we don't mean out of anger. He could be jealous and I'm assuming you were his first love(since you took his virginity) that he is so attayched to you that he doesn't want anybody else to have you. He is confusing this with love, and doesn't know wether to stay or leave you. His family is out of the picture so don't stress about them. My advice to you is have a face to fave conversation and talk about what both of you want. since you already like the other guy I suggest you tell your ex that there is not much you can do but that he will always be in your heart. Hope this helped.