I broke up with my first girlfriend, and I am really confused! Please help? (10pts for most helpful answer)?

[dan]

I broke up with her yesterday. She is my first girlfriend. I was with her for a year and a half. The past 6 months there I have had issues and I have gotten upset with her because she is never supportive of anything, and she is rude about a lot of stuff. Then the last 2 weeks, we have been arguing a TON about stuff, and I just felt like I'm not in love with her anymore. She is not nice, and we don't agree on a lot of stuff. So yesterday I told her how I felt, and we ended it. She blocked me on facebook, twitter, probably my number and stuff. I felt really relieved when it was finally was over, I was glad. I stressed about it for like 4 or 5 months, not sure if I should break up with her. And I started not treating her like I used to. So I was happy it was finally over! I sent her a message tho, telling her I was sorry, and that I know she needs time and space to recover so I wouldn't contact her until she is ready and talks to me, but I would like to be friends. But I just have this weird urge to call her, even tho she I know doesn't want to talk to me, I told her I wouldn't contact her, and I am 99.9% sure she wouldn't answer. And I don't know what we would talk about. I want to just see how her day was, but I guess it would be bad.. I honestly want to still be friends with her, and although that usually doesn't work, I wanna try? I'm not sure what is going on in my head right now. I am sortof panicking and freaking out. I don't know why D: but should I call her? This is my first break up, so maybe I don't know what to think, and I truly don't know what to do. :/ I am 18 years old, and yeah, she was my first girlfriend. I am going away to college next year, and that was another thing we argued about, I guess the last 6 months too, because she doesn't want me to go away, and she said that she didn't want to try if i went away, and then she said she would try. I just don't know why I was happy yesterday, and up until like when I sent the message to her about wanting to be friends, i am freaking out!!??!!

[Armando]

I'm 16 ,so you proably gonna care less about what I'm about to write,but it's worth a try. Just forget about her,your going to college,alot more women and the women are more MATURE (which I really love) so good luck man.

P.S. I have a thing for older women (35-55) so I don't know much about younger girls. (just had to say it)

[Tracey]

Alright I've got 5 things to do:
1: you have to relax, listen to some music, do some exercise play video games
2: okay before you do something your gonna regret, think about how you feel I think that your just in shock because it all happened so quickly.
3: go out of the house get some fresh air.
4: hang with your friends this is probably one of the most important ones. In a situation like this, friends are always a good idea. They will make you feel better
5: lose contact with her, I'm sorry but don't talk to her for about 2 months. You need to recover first before you talk to her again. Then you can reconsider the possibility of becoming just friends with her. This is probably another important one. You need time to heal before you go back into the drama so do all the steps I said and then talk to her. I honestly think that your in shock because of how quickly it happened. Chill out and you will be fine