Hi world, im in a complicating situation and i need advice?

[Jazmin]

I met this guy in high school my freshman year abd we've been at it for about 3years which makes us seniors this year. During our relationship, I would always break up with him over little things and he'd always beg me to come back and I always would. I'm like the classy type and he's like the thug type.. we've been through a lot and just about few months ago he cheated on me with two diff girls because he said I stopped paying attention to him and putting my friends first.. which I did. So I found one of the girls on twitter and we had our arguments theb yesterday I saw her in person for the first time and we fought and I blamed him for it all and told him I didn't want anything else to do with him. . I haven't talked to him since, I've been ignoring his calls. I really miss him and just want him to know how I feel about him. Was I wrong for leaving him? Should I try to get back with him what do I do?

[ehverno2b40]

My opinion is; NO woman & NO man is worth fighting over; unless your married to them.

[JL]

You're not classy to be dumping people so easily. You're not a bad person, you just have unrealistic expectations. Instead of saying "I'm classy" and "he's a thug", try saying "we are both young people" so you can see the real person instead of fitting him (and yourself) into an image. Love is wanting the other person to be happy. When you can focus on that, you'll be more mature than most of the world.

[Bella]

When people get cheated on, they need to realise that no matter what it is NOT their fault. They may have provoked it but they were not in the wrong ONE bit. He's obviously weak. If he genuinely cared about you he would have taken the time to speak to you and tell you that you're not giving him enough attention, let you know that he needs you, but no. He cheats on you??? Don't have any of that. You deserve better.

[?]

Your are the typical girl that likes the bad guy for some reason.... Listen to all you said about him you would be a freaking fool to ever talk to him ever again. Try to find a guy you actually seek and move on like a classy guy you mentioned. Not a piece of trash. You women I swear...

[Michael]

ummm. i would say.. "i still love you and i will always love you but i dont think that we can work out." or something like that. hope this helps