My cousin is so nosy and irritating?

[Rachel]

So I've got a cousin who's 16. Her name's Freda. She's like a national gymnast and she does really well in school. My mom thinks she's the 'ideal' daughter she wanted, so she's obviously not satisfied with me. My mom keeps comparing me to my cousin and my cousin is annoying as h*ll. Once I hung out with her over the holidays to get Christmas presents and whenever I took out my phone to reply my messages or go to twitter, she'd lean over my shoulder and try to see what I'm doing. When I lean away or put my phone away, she'd be like "why so secretive?" And give me a look. She's like spying on me or something because when I created a twitter account, she did it too. When I created a Skype account, she did the same. When I created a Facebook account, she did the same. When I was going though a tough time in school and started talking to my friends about it on twitter, she reported it straight to my mom. She can't ever leave me alone!

I know it's mean to think of my cousin this way, but it's not just that. She keeps talking about gymnastics and how her costumes are handmade by some professional costume maker and whatever. I be patient and listen but when I start talking about stuff like One Direction, she gets all annoyed and says "can you just shut up and stop talking about them?" I can't stand her anymore and she's getting on my nerves. My mom arranged a sleepover with her next week and I don't know if I can tolerate her. Please help! I'm really annoyed by her and I don't even want to talk to her. No mean comments please! Thank you if you've answered!

[hi]

Why don't you just block her from your twitter, facebook, and skype?

[The Grumpy Cat]

Good

[Sugarplum]

Has your mom ever told you that your cousin is the ideal daughter that she wanted? If so your mom is mean and rude.

I would talk to your mom how you feel about her and your cousin. If you dont want to a sleepover I would just plain out tell my mom and let her know. Your mom has no right to force a bond with you and your cousin.

[Olivia]

block her from all your social networking, tell your mom you don't like her and that you don't want to have a sleepover with her. she cant force you and if she tries to you can just point out that if you dont want to have a sleepover and she is forcing you too then she has organised this sleepover for her, not for you. Your cousin will know that your mom uses her as an example and that you can be jealous of her and she feeds off this idea, she rubs it in your face to make you feel worse and this makes her feel better. dont spent time with her, you dont have to.