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Boy trouble please help!?
01-20-2013, 01:48 PM
Post: #1
Boy trouble please help!?
Please I need your help on how to calm down this situation!

In my year im quite close with the boys! I get along with them quite well,Im not a tomboy but I can hang around them whenever! anyway It came out that quite a few boys like me! But theres a major Problem Two of the boys are bestfriends and now I feel like im coming inbetween there friendship and it doesnt feel to good! The other day one of them wrote me a poem on facebook and the other boy got jealous and they ended up agreeing to fight over me. Luckily me and My friends stopped it before it happend!But there was other boy number 3 whos Dead sweet and he liked me for ages but he sent me a message saying Im nothing but trouble and that he cant help but love me but im destroying friendships and that Im leading them on by talking and hanging around them.
There is more to this story but i dont want to bore you all Smile I just need your opinion on how to tell them that I dont have any feelings for them and that Im sorry for leading them on.....should I do it in person or text and how should i word it?

Thank you Smile

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01-20-2013, 01:56 PM
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Hi (again!). First of all; DON'T TEXT! Facebook, twitter, texting...there's no way to break it easily through these methods.

My neighbour had this problem; 2 boys, who were best mates, both fancied her, and she flirted so much, leading them both on! (not to say you're flirting!). However, she's just naturally flirty, and didn't like either! She wanted to then put distance between her and them, but subtly. My advice to her was; "pretend that they're your brothers.". I suppose this might not work for you, but she didn't flirt, because who would flirt with their brothers(!?!ewww!!), and they kind of settled into a normal friendship.

Hope all goes well xx

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