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Is chubby/ curvy more attractive these days..?
10-11-2012, 07:17 PM
Post: #1
Is chubby/ curvy more attractive these days..?
I have major thyroid problems.
I jog when ever I can but I can't over work myself or my goiters will hemorrhage and bleed and well, it doesn't feel too good.
I don't eat much, my meds make me lose my appetite and my hair is falling out and I have terrible migraines.
I'm SO self conscious of my body.. many times I've thought about being anorexic but I know it's not the answer and it's just worse than what my body is going through right now with my thyroid.
I work out, I don't eat fatty foods but yet my weight has been CONSTANT.
I see these skinny girls, flat tummies and I want that so bad but no matter what I do, I always have my belly.
I have broad shoulders (22 in' across) and a very big rib cage.
If I did have a flat belly my ribs wouldn't allow it. I would just look weird.
Pictures >
http://twitpic.com/5p6i32
http://twitpic.com/5p6hw5
(fake twitter account)
I mean, yea I have a sort of muscular build but with it I have great boobs.
36 DD's and I'm proud of them but I feel like a fat slob with my belly.
I've ALWAYS had a belly since I can remember and I was a hard core soccer player.
Please no hurtful comments to the pictures.
but mainly I'm asking if that can chubby be attractive..?
and I weight 165lbs but I DONT look like it.
It's the boobs, butt, and big bones lol

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10-11-2012, 07:25 PM
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165 is not that heavy dont worry

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10-11-2012, 07:25 PM
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ya look gud to me
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10-11-2012, 07:25 PM
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Different men like different types of women so regardless of how you looks, you will be attractive to someone. The real problem here is for you to be attractive to yourself. If you don't like the way you look then what other people think really wont matter anyway. In my opinion, you looks just fine, not like 165 at all.
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10-11-2012, 07:25 PM
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You look good to me. =] Far better than all those bony girls you see on TV.
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10-11-2012, 07:25 PM
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u are not fat!!!! or chubby!!!! wtf!!! lol!!! omg... at least your not anerexic or whatever
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10-11-2012, 07:25 PM
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You can't please everyone all the time. Different people like different things.

Sounds to me like you don't know what you want for a body image. You don't like your belly, but you don't think a flat one would work on you. I think you have to pick a look, work for it, and own it.
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10-11-2012, 07:25 PM
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Your worrying for no reason. Calm dow. Take some deep breathes.! And really look in the mirror & by proud of what yu see.! Hell, I wish my stomach was like your, i'd be in a two piece all the time.!! You have no reason to feel insecure.!

P.S. you have very nice Nails ;-)
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